I think exploring kinks and alternative lifestyles is a great way to not only learn more about yourself and what you like, but it also serves as an escape. You’re free to be as adventurous as you’d like and dive into things you may have not even known existed. You can even create an entire different life and identity which makes it even more thrilling for most.

How I Got Started Into Financial Domination

I actually didn’t even mean to get into Findom. I had a pretty good following on one of my personal accounts and pay pigs started messaging me asking if they could send me money. It was actually so insane to me at first because I didn’t even know a financial domination fetish existed.

Long story short, for about six months, I did a TON of research about all the different aspects of Findom and learned as much as I could by silently following the scene on Twitter and Tumblr. I wouldn’t dare step into the community if I was clueless. I never planned to dive in like I did but I just fell in love with the fetish and it all comes so naturally to me. It’s truly addicting.

Misconceptions About Findommes

One of the most common misconceptions I hear about Findommes is that they’re all cruel. Each Domme has her own style. There are Dommes who still dominate but aren’t into the humiliation kink.

Another misconception that is addressed all the time is that being a Findomme is easy money. I cannot stress enough how FALSE this is. It is not “free money” or quick cash. If that’s what you’re looking for, look into being a sugar baby. Sugar babies and Findommes are TWO completely different things. I always run as far away as I can when I come across someone who thinks they are the same.

Characteristics Of A Findomme

As a Findomme, you are a brand. It is definitely a job and there are so many different aspects to it. Consistency is probably the hardest part about it and why so many girls jump on the scene and give up after two weeks. You have to constantly be creative to develop content to put out. I usually post 3-4 times a day but that’s just what I’m comfortable with. I have found out with Findom, just like almost everything in life, you get what you put in so having a self-starter attitude is vital if you want to be successful. You work for yourself so nobody’s going to be there to remind you to be active and post or respond to messages.

This next one might be a no brainer but I will say it anyway… You must be dominant. There are definitely things you can learn if you’re a Findomme but if you have absolutely no dominant traits in your personality, it’s going to be extremely difficult to be successful. Being a Domme isn’t just being bratty or being mean. It’s truly an art that takes time to perfect. When you do perfect it, it’s tasteful and drives subs crazy. They always are left desperate for more.

It’s also important to be genuine. Lots of subs have been in the scene for years. They can recognize immediately when you aren’t being real or are a phony in any way. Both Dommes and subs are so cautious because of how many catfishes and “fake Dommes” there are online. Don’t steal or copy content. Findom is a pretty close knit community so once you establish a bad reputation, everyone will know very quickly.

How Can One Stand Out As A Findomme?

There are so many different platforms for Findom. I mostly use Twitter because that’s just where it all started for me. However, there is a ton of competition on this specific channel. My advice to stand out is to showcase your personality. Your profile is basically how subs and other Dommes get a feel for you and who you are.

Post high quality content and put thought into your posts. It’s not enough to post a Snapchat selfie with a caption that says “Fuck you, pay me”. Think about what your competitive edge is and own it. What kinks do you specialize in? What makes you not just A Domme, but what makes you THE Domme?

9 Tips To Get Started As A Findomme

• Research, research, research. Stepping on the scene knowing as much as I possibly could really allowed me to move up very quickly.
• Realize that this community is not always as friendly as it might seem. There are tons of trolls and timewasters. Don’t allow them to drain you of your time or energy. Also, stay away from drama.
• Optimize your profile: tribute methods in bio, verification, links to any other websites.
• Understand that, like any other business, Findom has high’s and low’s whether it’s financially or emotionally. There are weeks where you’ll make thousands and there are weeks where it’ll slow down. I’ve noticed towards the end of the month things slow down because everyone’s bills are due.
• Network! Networking with fellow Dommes will teach you so much and also help you grow faster. It’s also so much fun to get to do double Domme sessions too!
• Make use of relevant hash-tags (if you’re on Twitter or Tumblr).
• Don’t try to be anyone else. Do what is true to you. Feel free to explore but also set your own limits.
• Be smart and safe. Not to sound like your mom, but everything you post online is permanent. Don’t do anything that will ruin your future in any way.
• Don’t use Paypal as your preferred tribute method.

Goddess L – A 21 year old US based FinDomme who specializes in cuckolding, total power exchange, and humiliation (just to name a few). She is an entrepreneur and complete boss in all aspects of her life. Treat yourself, give in, and indulge in Goddess L;  your dark desire.

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Hi! I’m Miiya and I’m alternative model. I have 22 years old, I live in Madrid (Spain). I work as public relations in a tattoo studio. I love Hayao Miyazaki’s films and Japanese culture!

What is your fashion style like?

My style is casual and minimalist, I like black clothing specially jeans <3

Which is the best compliment you have received?

What matters to me is who says the compliment and not what the compliment is. It’s not the same if a stranger compliments me or if the person I love the most does it.

Is there any type of food you will never try or are you game for everything?

BANANAS! I would never try a banana, even when someone is eating it I feel sick, for some reason that fruit appears to be disgusting to me and I don’t think I will never try one.

Do you have any hobbies?

My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music and singing in the shower hahaha!

Would you rather go sky diving or bungee jumping?

I’m too scared to do that, too much adrenaline to me I guess.

If you could have a superpower, what will it be?

Teleport. I love travelling and visiting new places but the time it takes to move from one place to another is a pain. It would also be really useful to avoid crowded buses and trains when I go to work.

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

Some people fake being a photographer or a gamer to get to know me, they think that they could be my future friend or boyfriend. When someone insists so much to know me I feel cornered, it’s like a forced situation. Relationships are made naturally, not forcing it and lying, that’s how I think.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Miiya. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Sexy is attitude and confidence. I feel sexy when I’m pleased with the clothes I’m wearing, when I get my makeup and eyeliner done, when I’m comfortable and I feel beautiful I also feel sexy.

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Instagram: Instagram.com/Miiyarage

Twitch: Twitch.tv/Miiyarage

Twitter: Twitter.com/Miiyarage

Patreon: Patreon.com/Miiya

Suicide Girls: Miiya.Suicidegirls.com

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Hi! It’s very exciting to be in an interview here, thank you so much! My name is Catalina and I am from Colombia, I’ve been a cosplayer for 9 years now and I’m very happy to be now one of the most popular cosplayers in my country. I am a professional actress and theatre director too, I think the “play” part of cosplay is all I live for!

What do you love most about cosplaying?

What I love the most about cosplay is to be able to represent my favorite characters from every anime, comic or movie and make the people believe I’m actually that character during a con or through a photo shoot.

Do you make your own costumes and how long does it take?

I’m actually not much of a cosmaker, I usually make all the props (armors, guns, swords shoes, etc) but I don’t really know how to sew hehe. I love crafting though so all that part in my cosplays is made by me. It usually takes a week or two depending on how hard it is to make the prop you are working on.

What is a typical day like for you?

A typical day in my life is just me going to the German language academy, going to the gym and streaming videogames on “Twitch” at night. If a con is close you can find myself working until very late hours on props, wigs and details of my cosplays.

Is there a food or drink you don’t take?

Actually there is only one drink in the world I hate and it’s the passion fruit juice, don’t get me wrong! Is not that I’m not passionate haha, I just hate that flavor since I was a kid; if we are talking about food, I consider myself a food lover, so serve whatever and I’m sure I will eat it.

How long would you survive a zombie apocalypse?

I think I would survive as long as I don’t need to go out of my house lol, so it would be about a week? I’m a coward and I don’t know how to use any kind of weapons.

Which is the sexiest item in your wardrobe?

I think it’s a beautiful purple and black under breast corset I have, it’s goth and sexy and it makes my body look really nice!

What is the lamest or funniest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

Omg! There have been a lot of these lame attempts but the one I consider the lamest of all is the guys who use the excuse of being professional photographers (they usually aren’t good at all) to try to get to talk to a cosplayer, I can’t count the times that has happened to me already! It’s so obvious and lame haha.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Catalina. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

I would define “sexy” as the perfect balance between sensuality and cuteness, to me, there is a very tiny line which separates sexy from vulgar. You definitely don’t need to show skin in every picture for it to be sexy, you just need to learn how to use every inch of your body to state the feeling or sensation you are trying to put in the picture.

Follow the beautiful Catalina on:

Instagram: /katvalcosplay/

Twitch: /katval

Facebook: /catalinavallejocosplay

This are the cosplays that I working on currently, follow me on my social networks to see more.

Soraka (From League of Legends)

Tamamo No Mae (From Fate/Extra)

Xayah  (From League of Legends)

Felicia (From Marvel)

Images courtesy of Catalina

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I think sex is a great way to experience and give pleasure without any judgement. I love that you can explore and choose what excites you.

When it comes to outdoor sex I love the excitement of being caught, and who doesn’t love having sex in nature!

Favorite Public Sexual Experiences

My first favourite public sexual experience was when I recently filmed a fucking and blow job scene for my Manyvids. I loved the idea of getting caught and it turned me on a lot .

My second favourite public sexual experience was when I filmed a sex scene close to a park and I ended up getting caught which was very exciting for me .

Tips To Have Sex Outdoors

If you are wanting to experience outdoor sex for the first time I would recommend to research some locations which are secluded so you won’t get interrupted while having fun. Discuss with your partner the type of sex acts you would both like to experiment with so you both are feeling comfortable about the experience.

Best Positions & Acts For Outdoor Sex

When trying outdoor sex I would recommend trying doggy which is a great sex position. You could wear no panties with a skirt or dress for easy access and just in case you do get caught

Sex acts that are suited for outdoor sex include giving a blow job while kneeling or standing up and going into doggy position while getting your pussy licked.

Lacey Diamond –  I have a geeky side I love to play console games and watch Star Wars in my spare time love playing Mario kart and Diablo. I’m very flexible and ambidextrous and this allows me to cover a niche market for the Australian Porn industry. I have lived in Melbourne for 5 years I would like to travel more around the world and shoot porn in Europe. I’m attracted to women and men enjoying the best of what both worlds can offer me.

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Twitter: https://twitter.com/darthlaceyxxx

ManyVids: laceydiamond.manyvids.com

OnlyFans: onlyfans.com/darthlaceyxxx

Upcoming Works: Magazines I have been in picture magazine Home girls section, people magazine. I was featured on Penthouse Australia in the Little Black Book section in June 2018 and I will be featured in Picture magazine also this year .

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I’m from SC.  When it comes to my family I am a very private person.

When and how did your inspiration to being a model start?

My inspiration for fashion started when I was young. I can remember watching my first Victoria’s Secret runway show. I told my grandmother, that’s going to be me one day.

Which is your most memorable photoshoot experience so far?

The most memorable photoshoot experience I have had so far was shooting at the waterfalls.  It was one of my first shoots and I can remember being so nervous. We went to a waterfall to get some pictures and the photographer fell. He saved his camera but messed up his ankle. I felt so bad but that turned out to be the best shoot yet.

Are there any common misconceptions about models you still hear of?

The common misconceptions about models I still hear of  is that you are too old. My response is always the same, age has no limits on what I can do.

Do you have any other hobbies?

My other hobbies include writing poetry, writing short stories, reading, relaxing with my grandchildren, designing my own clothing line, making my makeup line (all coming soon),  and watching movies

Can you describe a typical day like for yourself?

A typical day for me begins early. I am a private home healthcare nurse. I sit with my clients, making sure they have what’s needed.  I do light housework, cook and run errands. After nursing all day, I then begin working on building our company MSK Management. So if I am not doing a shoot, I’m directing one. If I am not in a show, I’m coordinating one.. Everyday I do something geared toward my career.

If you could have a super power, what will it be?

If I could have a super power, it would be the power to heal.

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

The lamest attempt a guy has used to try and get to know me, would have to be sending his friend over first.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Michelle. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

I define sexy as confident, classy, sensual.  Sexy is when you been through it all and come out stronger.

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Instagram: www.instagram.com/model_michellea

Websites:

www.themichellea.wixsite.com/fashionmodel

www.modelmayhem.com/modelmichellea

Facebook: www.facebook.com/michellea.themodel

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Hey everyone, I’m 27, born and raised in London. I come from a Portuguese and St Lucian background. From the age of six I was a competitive cheerleader. I no longer compete but I coach my own cheerleading program.

I am now currently a Fire artist. Dancing and breathing fire. I do this with The Dolls UK.

Am a tattoo model and also a pro makeup artist… couldn’t just pick one could I!

What is your proudest achievement so far?

I would say it’s joining my company The Dolls UK, getting to travel the country doing something I love with an amazing group of girls! Female empowerment and good vibes all round.

Like getting to perform my fire routines at the great British tattoo show in front of hundreds of people, the adrenaline kick is incredible that I feel so empowered and free, in that moment I’m unstoppable.

I cannot wait to make this grow even more and show the world what powerful women can achieve.

Can you describe a typical day for yourself?

I prepare for my day job at the global flagship M.A.C store.

Makeup has always been a passion of mine, I love getting artsy and trying fun different things. Then in the evening I will go to my cheer babies. My team is called Fame Allstars UK, we compete world wide and placed 3^rd in the USA which is incredible and we couldn’t be prouder.

How adventurous are you?

I love to try exciting new things! I will always want to succeed and be good at what I do, I guess that’s my competitive side coming out of me.

Try anything once… how else how do you know if you like it or not?

If you could be a cartoon or anime character for real, who will it be?

Omg! Best question ever. Hands down. Sailor Moon. She is my favorite anime character and I even have her tattooed on my leg.

She’s a super hero with amazing powers and cute outfits. A brave sailor scout protector of the universe. She’s a romantic, clumsy and a cry baby. She would do anything for the people she loves and has a talking cat. Basically I think I am Sailor Moon already. Just got to find that talking cat!

Is there something you have always wanted to do or learn but haven’t had the time?

I always look at things and think I want to do that! I would love to be able to skateboard like a pro. I just wish I could stay on one longer than ten seconds.

Do you have any favorite quotes or motto you like to use?

Positive light attracts positive light. You get what you give out. I’m a strong believer in the law of attraction and energies and vibrations. Be kind to people, smile more, do what makes you happy and make your dreams real life goals!

What is the lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

Oh gosh. A guy came into my work. He approached me wanting to buy makeup for his mum, so I helped him pick a few things – after about 10 minutes of looking he then said, “So when am I taking you out for a drink”. Before I had the chance to politely decline and hide my awkward face  I was saved by his friend who came over saying, “Hurry up. How long does it take to pick your girlfriend a present!“ Busted Romeo.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Marcellina. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Sexy comes in so many forms. Sexy oozes confidence, it’s a glow, it’s a feeling, it’s a twinkle in the eye, it’s a laugh or the smile. Sexy is what you feel and how you present it.

Let it shine

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Instagram: @marcellinadasilva

Makeup Instagram: @makeupbymarcellinadasilva

My Fire group Instagram: @thedollsuk

My Cheerleading Team Instagram: @fame_allstars_uk

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Sex is just a part of life, so why not make it fun and exhilarating. Sex feels awesome and it brings people closer together! I love being a daredevil in the sex world because I have always been an adrenaline lover!

Experimenting During Sex

I’m fairly experimental when it comes to sex, I mean, not many people ride dildos in a public laundry room, but then again I haven’t done anal!  I feel like it is important to experiment because it keeps everything spicy in life.  Face it, sex and masturbation can easily be boring and can carry onto your everyday life.  Channel your inner sexual tiger and try something new, it might be the worst experience of your life but it might be the best! The experience is all that matters.

Most Daring Things I Have Done

I kicked off my sex life in a daring matter! I had sex at an outdoor party in the middle of it all, I was caught by 20 people overlooking me and this guy! Another crazy story was when I was on a cross country roadtrip and this guy and I had to pull over on the shoulder of a public road because, well, we got so horny from driving so long! I had a snuggie in the backseat, so we got out of the car. Laid the snuggie down on the grass and did it, right there! Best sex I ever had.

Things I’m Dying To Try

I want to find two guys that I like and have sex with them, both, at the same time! Also, why am I not in the mile high club yet…I have to do that too.

Tips To Be Daring!

Start slow and take baby steps my friend. If you’re not intimate with anyone at the moment, try venturing out by buying different erotic clips. If you are a sexpert in boring missionary sex, maybe try a new position. See what you like first!

I highly encourage purchasing a clip with your partner, that way you can find out what you both like. Trust me, I know that may seem awkward or scary but it is important to challenge yourselves…even in the bedroom! Afterwards, life will be so much better.

Jada Kai – Hi I’m Jada Kai, I am an adult content producer and performer! I’m really active and my best friend is Mary Jane. I love my fans and I love connecting with them on my social media.

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Twitter: https://twitter.com/officialjadakai

ManyVids: www.jadakai.manyvids.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialjadakai/

Snapchat: Jadakai69

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Hi, I’m Alyssa, I am 19 this year and I am currently studying for a Diploma in performing arts in Sunway University. I am from Selangor, Malaysia. I represented Malaysia to compete in Japan as well as in Bangkok as a cheerleader.

What hobbies and interests do you have?

I love singing, I always sing in the shower. Besides, I always watch dramas and movies when I have my free time. I LOVE EATING!!! Food is the best so far in my life. But during the night, I usually go for my cheerleading practices. Sometimes on Saturday or Sunday, me and my friend will go out to KL to explore a little for a little photoshoot.

How will you describe your fashion style?

I wouldn’t say that I have great taste in fashion but I personally feel that it’s not bad

Do you have a strict fitness regime that you follow?

Yes, but not very strict. I must at least exercise two days in one week, as in really sweating during exercise. But usually I exercise almost every day.

If you could time travel, where will you go?

I will go back to the past, to recall the things I’ve missed out or regret doing it.

What is a typical day like for yourself?

Scrolling Instagram and Facebook is my daily routine. Not to forget eating delicious food, day dreaming and sleeping is my talent

On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

4.

What is the lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

“Hi Alyssa, I’m in your University now. Can I maybe have your Wi-Fi ID and your password?”

“Had your lunch? Because I haven’t.”

“What color do you like?”

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Alyssa. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Not by dressing sexy, but the personality. Outgoing personality with a little bit of “sometimes cheesy” and “sometimes bitchy” and to be confident in things she does.

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ealyssahlee/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiuVy9aAqGj8kcyEuklboMg?view_as=subscriber

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Hi thank you so much for featuring me. Well where can I start; I was born in Zimbabwe. I’m 18 years old originally from Toronto, Canada. Right now I’m living in Calgary Canada currently starting my first year in University studying Psychology. I sing, and song write, and have been doing that since I was a youngin. I also love modeling and taking dope pictures. Being so active on my social media, I love showing confidence and self-love.

What is your proudest achievement so far?

Being so young, I have yet to accomplish my dreams and goals. Being so influenced by fashion, music and media, I want to one day have my own clothing line, model and promote for big brands and release at least an EP. But currently, the biggest and proudest accomplishment I’ve done so far is getting into school and getting my education.

Which is the best compliment you have received?

While working at Walmart, I’ve had a couple customers approach me and tell me “I’m too beautiful to work here”. Haha.

How is a typical day like for you?

A typical day for me will be me attending class. If I’m not in class or at work, I’m listening to beats all day and writing music. I can spend a whole day doing music and trying to make a single beat turn into a dope song! Either that or I’m planning and contacting local photographers to book photoshoots. Also throughout my day, I’m obsessed with watching Netflix. I’m actually currently binge-watching “ How I Met Your Mother”, Dynasty”, “Lee Daniels’ Star” and “Bob’s Burger”.

Do you have any guilty indulgences for food?

I’m the world’s pickiest eater. I tend to eat what I know and that would be anything Italian like lasagna – girl if I had a choice, I would eat lasagna for breakfast, lunch, and dinner! I’m also obsessed with Nigerian Jollof rice if it’s made right.

Would you rather be able to control time or control objects?

I would much rather be able to control time because my time management skills are terrible haha. I always feel like there is never enough hours in the day and I try so hard to do multiple things throughout the day and never have time to finish it. So having the power to control time would be dope.

If you could meet anyone past or present, who will it be?

I would love to meet Kanye West. I look up to that man so much. He isn’t just a rapper but he has multiple businesses and so many other things going on like fashion design, music producing and much more and I look up to that! He’s also just got so much confidence that I aspire to be; people call it cockiness but I f*ck with it. His level of confidence is something that I aspire to be. If I were to meet Kanye, I would want him to be my mentor. I f*ck with his vision.

What is an ideal first date for you?

An ideal first for me will be something fun. I like men who are creative. For a first date, I would love to do something fun where I can really capture the man’s personality, and also showcase mine. A regular dinner will be ok too but I much rather do something fun and out of the box! Let’s take a salsa dancing class! Let’s go on a picnic!

Be creative!

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions, Portia. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

Someone who isn’t just good looking but also smart and confident in themselves for who they are will get my attention any day! Being aware that you aren’t perfect but you still love yourself and comfortable with the skin and person you are is amazing to me! And to me, I think anyone can be “hot” and “pretty” but not everyone is smart.

That’s what makes someone “sexy” to me, that self-confidence and intelligence. Thank you so much SimplySxy for featuring me! I had a lot of fun.

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Twitter: https://twitter.com/BlxcQuxxn

Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/official-portia-kay

Snapchat: @portia_kk

For 2018 I have so much going on that I am so excited for!, I will be going to Toronto to work on music with a lot of talented people such as producer and singer Omar Sur Le Son Qui , I’ll also be shooting with a couple photographers in Toronto at which you guys can look out for on my Instagram and my other social media platforms. Also here in Calgary I am working on a track with rapper East Dior ( https://open.spotify.com/artist/2BXwS76XuoCkS0xuSh3crA?si=SA4bmWUFQs6Z-147HBP6jw ) and group called Wild Nation ( https://open.spotify.com/artist/15k0YrFaYeAeyjivM44pRg?si=Nr1czWGKRneDaQALAi9L5g )

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I’ve always believed sex to be a fundamental human need. In fact, sex is listed as one of the base-level needs in the Maslow Hierarchy of Needs. I think it’s absolutely important to have sex regularly with different partners to remain happy and healthy. But beyond that, I believe sex is something beautiful and natural that needs to be shared and experienced by everyone.

Modern-day society, despite having made remarkable strides in the past few decades, still views sex as something shameful or dirty. This is why porn still has such a strong stigma attached to it until today – people are being huge hypocrites about it. They really  like sex but can’t reveal it for fear of being castigated by the rest of society as a deviant or someone immoral. I think that’s very sad. This attitude really needs to change.

Increasing Popularity Of Fuck Buddies

Having a fuck buddy is a wonderful thing. Men and women alike can explore their sexual and emotional compatibility in a no-strings-attached environment where either party doesn’t need to feel pressured to make any huge, life-changing decisions just yet, like getting into a monogamous relationship or marriage.

It’s increasingly popular these days because people are becoming more aware of the huge range of options that they have out there for sexual or romantic partners. They want to explore their sexuality with multiple people at once without being tied down by commitment. I personally like it, because it allows me to compare and contrast my different partners to find the best fit for myself, all within an ethical framework.

If I decide to date a girl seriously, I want to know that she’s the best one out there for me, and I’ve actually done the legwork by actually dating as many girls as possible prior to committing to her. I don’t want to be one of those guys who settled and then spend the rest of their lives convincing themselves that they didn’t.

Popular Methods To Find A Fuck Buddy

One method I’ve found particularly useful to find a fuck buddy is online dating. Every man and woman should at least have an account on a dating app or site. It’s not only the most efficient way to find people you’re compatible with but also the most versatile. You can literally connect with people halfway around the world from a totally-different culture if you want. And it saves time and money because you can filter them based on their looks, age, occupation, personality, what they’re looking for, etc. before you even spend the time, money, and effort to actually meet up with them.

Apps like Tinder are a total godsend for young people who don’t necessarily have the time to hang out at single bars, participate in recreational activities, or join speed-dating events. This means that it’s crucial to have a near-perfect online dating profile showcasing your best pictures to ensure that you’ll meet the one who’s best for you. It pays huge dividends to spend time to work on it.

Ways To Retain A Girl As Your Fuck Buddy

I think, if you can establish an ongoing sexual relationship with a girl without being explicitly monogamous to her, that’s an accomplishment in itself. It means that the girl deems you worthy enough of having sex with her without needing your commitment just yet. If you want to keep her around for as long as possible, you need to continue to hint at the possibility of commitment (without actually committing to her and closing off your other options). This can be done through words and actions.

Always portray yourself as a guy who’s finding himself, looking for the right girl, but who likes to take things slow because you “take commitment seriously.” Never go full fuckboy; tone down the alpha-dog “pump and dump” vibe and infuse some beta boyfriend-potential sweetness into your routine with her. At the same time, it’s imperative to allude to her that you’re still seeing other women, otherwise she’s likely to give you an ultimatum (“commitment or I walk”).

Women only become fuck buddies with a guy who’s neither an untameable fuckboy nor a needy beta male who obviously doesn’t have many options. It’s a thing women do if she finds a guy with some alpha/bad boy qualities, who clearly has options and whom she believes that she can somehow convert into a loyal boyfriend/provider. It’s a stepping stone to her even though it might very well be the end goal for you. It’s absolutely vital that she believes that you’re still seeing other options out there.

Women don’t normally do fuck buddy, because they feel used giving away free milk continuously, unless they feel like there’s progress and potential for a full-fledged relationship in the near future. So give her just that… or the illusion thereof! This takes practice, but if you internalize this mindset you’re already way ahead of the game.

Are Rules Required To Be Established With A Fuck Buddy?

I think one of the cardinal defining rules is that she must be fucking you. I know this sounds stupid and obvious, but too many guys find themselves emotionally-blackmailed into a sexless arrangement where they’re still providing the girl with attention and material things. That’s silly. Cut her off immediately and permanently if she refuses sex. Ghost her. No negotiations. Also, some guys like to take the term “fuck buddy” literally, meaning they only do fucking and nothing else.

It might work — there’s this guy I know who doesn’t ever take his fuck buddy out on dates, because it sends the wrong signals — but I think it’s ineffective if retention is your goal. I think you should treat her like a girlfriend without actually being too clear on things. If she corners you, still remain vague and stress that you’re “confused about your feelings” and still trying to “understand yourself” (women love emotional language, because that’s what they can relate to). Never show your cards that you’re delaying commitment only because you want to continue playing the field. If she even senses that you’re just wasting her time, she’ll bail.

As for rules to be established with her, I think it helps if you don’t feature her prominently in your social media or bring her to meet your family/friends. I think it sets up the wrong dynamics, and soon enough you’ll feel the pressure to girlfriend/wife her even when you don’t really want to. You need to enforce this boundary if she ever pressures you on this.

Stand your ground. Women have a way of insidiously inserting themselves into all aspects of your life, and before you know it, you feel completely obliged to become an item with her due to her expert social manipulation tactics.

Mistakes Men Make That Turn Away Their Fuck Buddies

It’s common to lose fuck buddies. She might meet someone else who’s willing to commit to her right away, or she just loses interest. The former is out of your control, but the latter is avoidable, if you maintain the ideal persona consistently. Back to the idea of the tameable bad boy, you want to aim for the sweet spot where you’re not an incorrigible player jerk or a needy emotional beta male.

If you’re the former, she won’t think you’re a realistic potential boyfriend, and she bails. If you’re the latter, she’ll think you’re a loser, and she bails. Not only do you have to be the edgy masculine guy with a soft side, you have to give her the illusion of incremental progress. This means you’ll meet her more and take her out on more “couple-like” activities over time, all while still having sex with her.

Next, make sure you never talk about your feelings for her. Don’t say you like her, love her, care for her, want to be with her forever, etc. Getting emotional too quickly with women scares them off. Why? Because it’s a sign of weakness and also lack of options on your part. You can show her you care for her (e.g. cook food for her, hold her hand, surprise her on her birthday), but never do beta things like telling her she’s beautiful, kissing her ass over text, etc. that only puts you in the league of the legions of losers who slide into her DMs on a daily basis.

These rules apply even after you get into a relationship with her. If she knows you’re completely in awe of her, she’ll take it for granted and eventually lose respect for you. As bad as this sounds, she should be looking up to you, not the other way round, for ANY relationship to work, including but not limited to fuck buddy and relationships. Period!

Alvin Tan is an Asian adult film actor promoting the AMWF niche. After being expelled from college for making a sex tape that went viral, he tried his hands at a wide range of careers, including starting his own software business and political fundraising, before getting into the pornography industry. He also shares dating tips and insights on his Twitter account: AlvinTanYOLO.

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I’m a musician and DJ living in NYC’s historic Lower East Side.

What is your proudest achievement so far?

Touring the world for music. And getting my cat to play fetch.

How did your passion in music begin?

I found music in my mid twenties.  It became my best friend, therapy, lover. Now I get to play in front of audiences surrounded by my best friends on stage with me. I’m also very fortunate to have discovered my love for DJing. I love seeing a room come alive when I put their favorite songs on!

Where do you and your band get inspiration from?

NYC.  Late nights. Lost friends. Puppy love.

If you could collaborate with anyone past or present, who will it be?

I’d love to make a record with Ryan Adams.

Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but have yet to find the time?

I’d like to be able to read all the great books sitting around my apartment.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jessica. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

A blend of confidence, goofiness and the courage to be yourself.

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Thank you for the opportunity! I am a 22 year old Microbiologist living in Southern California from a small town called Tonopah, Nevada!

What is the best compliment you have received?

One guy in college told me he was attracted to me because he always saw me at the library and the gym. It felt good to be complimented on my work ethic, rather than looks.

Do you have any hobbies?

Yes, I love reading, lifting weights, and spending time at the beach!

How will you describe your fashion style?

It depends on what I’m doing, but I would say I definitely have a girly, flirty, and colorful style overall.

Which items are a must have in your wardrobe?

A jean jacket, a nice pair of booties, and a classic crew neck are my must have items.

Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the time to do so?

Yes, I’d like to compete in a bikini competition at some point.

If you could time travel, where will you like to visit?

The 70’s or 80’s. I’ve always felt like I was born in the wrong generation lol.

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

The funniest time I can remember was when I worked as a tutor in college. One guy pretended to be in the Anatomy and Physiology class so I could meet to tutor him one evening. I came fully prepared to help him study. When I arrived he admitted he wasn’t in the class. He just wanted to take me out.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Abri. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

I think it’s a bit different for everyone. I feel most sexy when I look strong. So for me strong is sexy. People can be sexy in different ways.. the way they dress, the way they speak, the way they look, or the way they think. Sexy is a powerful and comprehensive term. I think it’s a combination of confidence and allure.

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I’ve always been more open about my sexual side and I have known this since at a young age. I have learnt a lot about different fetishes and kinks over the years. I’m honestly a full sub when it comes to my personal relationship with my partner but I work best as a Domme! I love the passion that comes along with kink, and it’s like nothing else which is probably why I love it so much.

Characteristics Of A Submissive

Loyalty and dependability are my top two favorite things. I want to be able to count on you to not waste my time as well as being able to trust you to serve me properly. Communication is very important because I want to be able to cater to all your fetishes so we can both be satisfied in the end. I can’t lie though, I am a financial Dominatrix so money is a huge factor in my selection of subs.

Why Submissives Love Being Dominated

It’s honestly always a very personal reason on why and what kind of fetishes they are into. One thing that doesn’t change is the enjoyment they get from their preferred fetish fulfilled. I’ve had a financial paypig who loves the suffering feeling of having to struggle to pay for himself and make his own life harder in a sense. He liked this because growing up, he never had this issue due to his financial upbringing, so it was a brand new feeling which ultimately makes him weak for his mistress.

My sissy subs like dressing up in lingerie and acting like a female because they know they’ll never actually be a true masculine man. They give in instead and embrace their feminine side which is satisfying to them.

My domination and/or CBT subs love physical pain for the pure feeling of it, they’re masochists and that’s pretty self explanatory.

How Subs Should Serve A Mistress Correctly

My number one pet peeve is whining so absolutely stay away from that. I like to have sessions with my devoted subs at least once a week so their need for me is heighten in their daily lives. If I give you tasks to complete, make sure you do them in the allotted amount of time and don’t ever make me wait. If you are my sub then only serve me, give me everything instead of splitting it between another Domme. Always pay for our sessions but that is already a given!

Typical Punishments For Subs 

I don’t give out too many chances, I have a three strike policy. I know I’m capable of finding subs who can devote their time and serve me in the way I like so if that’s not you, I have no problem with dropping you. However, if you mess up, I will make sure you make it up to me by giving extra tributes and showering me in gifts. I want to know you’re genuinely sorry for disobeying your Mistress and ensuring you won’t do it again.

Mistress Milan – I’m a 21 year old bratty Brazilian financial dominatrix and humiliatrix! I love the feeling of weakening grown men into my devoted subs and leaving them always wanting more of me. I love power and mind control it’s the key to domination.

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I don’t have any tours but I’m always accepting subs for sessions via Teamviewer, Kik, or Skype!

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Hi! Nice to meet you guys. I’m from San Diego, California. I was born and raised in San Diego so I’m definitely a beach girl haha.

What is your proudest achievement so far?

Well I’ve always been the biggest busy body so I’m really proud of myself in general but I think my favorite achievement has been getting my degree. My work with modeling and acting has been awesome though! I get to travel and meet the best people

Which is the best compliment you have received?

“Are your boobs real?” Hahaha.

Do you have any food you can’t live without?

I LOVE fruit! Cantaloupe is actually my favorite food, so weird I know lol.

What is your dream super power to have?

Definitely teleportation! And be able to transport people with me haha. With my hectic schedule I would love to be able to jump around anywhere for work, or to just travel without the long flights, or just relax

If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

I would change a lot actually, my number 1 would probably be to change the way corporate companies run the world.

What is the craziest thing you have ever done or attempted?

Nothing to brag about so far but I will be going sky diving for my birthday in August!

Funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

Lamest attempt was definitely when I had a stalker that broke into my house and still thought I would date him haha!

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Allyson. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Someone who is confident, intelligent, funny, and has a passion for something beyond themselves.

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Thank you for featuring me on SimplySxy! I’m a 19 years old pianist and blogger from Singapore. I’ve just completed my A levels in Singapore and that means I can finally commit myself entirely to music. I will be going to the Royal College of Music in London this year to pursue my lifelong career as a pianist! I’ve received so many comments from people around me, telling me how I don’t sound or look like a classical musician at all.

That’s because although I learn and play classical music mostly from the 16th-19th century, I am not “classical” at all. I love to keep up with modern fashion and beauty trends, blog about controversial topics and share bits of my world with my Instagram followers!

How did your love for music start?

I became interested in music when I was four, urging my parents to sign me up for piano lessons. By seven, I decided to pursue music as a pianist. Deciding my career at the age of seven? I know it sounds absolutely crazy! But my passion and dedication for music has never stopped as I see myself none other than a musician since I was young. The High Distinctions I obtained in graded examinations certainly motivated me, but as I grew older, I realised examination scores do not determine my potential as a musician.

I began exploring more into the music industry, picking up the Chinese Guzheng and achieving a Distinction in diploma at 12 years old. I was lucky to have amazing dedicated piano teachers who guided and motivated me, and somehow everything else fell into place – I achieved a LRSM Distinction when I was 16, was awarded the 1st prize in the East zone piano competition in 2012, clinched a Gold award in the Singapore Performers’ Festival in 2014, and in 2017, emerged as the youngest award recipient in the Singapore International Festival of Music Competition Soloists Category. And now, I got into RCM!

I am extremely passionate about fulfilling my goal of becoming a professional pianist, but I have to constantly remind myself that hard work and dedication beats talent and luck. Music has always been an important part of my life and I can never imagine a day where I stop loving music!

Do you have a beauty regime to looking so fantastic?

Woah thank you for your compliment! I used to suffer from acne as a teenager, but I’ve discovered a secret for clear healthy skin – HYDRATION! Ten glasses of water a day is mandatory to me. I make sure I keep my skin hydrated at all times, and I don’t believe in piling up beauty products.

In fact, the only beauty product I use is SKII treatment essence. No toner, no serum, nothing else! I use it twice a day after washing my face in the morning and before I go to bed. SKII is definitely my holy grail! One excellent product is enough to cover for an entire beauty regime.

On a scale of 1-10, how much of a shopaholic are you?

I would say an 8. I don’t really buy unnecessary things on impulse but sometimes I find myself spending way over my budget, especially if it’s online shopping! I don’t regret the things I buy, but there are too many clothes, shoes and bags sitting in my wardrobe for more than a year and I haven’t worn them yet. Most of them are just too fancy and extra to wear them on a daily basis!

What is your fashion style like?

Definitely girly. I’d pick heels over flats and skirts over pants. Most of the times I’m wearing girly colours like pink, lilac and white. I also adore anything with lace details and shiny gemstones! If I were to choose a fashion icon that describes my style, I would say Paris Hilton. A bit of the early 2000s with lots of pink and sparkle haha and the Juicy Couture velour tracksuit!

Is there something you’ve always wanted to do or learn but haven’t had the time?

I’ve always wanted to learn dancing but good dancers often spend so much time and effort to practice. Sometimes I find myself watching Aliya Janell’s dance choreography videos and being green in envy. Her moves are so sexy and intriguing!

If you could time travel, where will you go?

I was thinking if I should say the past, but I will pick the future. It will be really fascinating to see what new technologies we have in the future and whether we’re driving our cars like aeroplanes in the sky… And maybe I can bring something back to the present! Oh and yes, I can see who I will marry in the future and how much wrinkles I have on my face when I’m older!

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

Once there was this guy who approached me for a survey. He kept pleading me to help him with his quick survey so I did. After a few minutes of walking away, I received a message from him. Smart move for getting my number but using a survey as an excuse? *yawns*

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Winnie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Confidence is sexy! Based on physical appearance, everyone defines sexy in a different way. But if you always carry yourself with poise and a charming smile, nobody can say you aren’t sexy! But don’t forget the heels because they really do make your body posture better.

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I love it! It’s a wonderful thing. I just need the other partner to at least take care of themselves physically and financially. After that I’m a sucker….Literally..I suck them.

Does Size Matter?

If you’re big, well, do your thing. If you’re small…well then we play You Fuck-I Fuck. So no, It doesn’t matter at all.

When my partner finds out I am bigger they usually get disappointed or shy. Like I said before however, sex can be anything as long as it feels good.

Advantages Of Being Bigger

I think the biggest advantage is confidence. If anyone’s angry with me and it’s a male, all I think is, ‘If I fucked your girlfriend, she’d leave you‘. If its a female, then I think ,’If we fucked I’d be your new best friend‘.

Tips To Have A Good Time If You’re Bigger

If you’re dating someone new and you’ve got a baseball bat in your jeans ready to hit a home run, it’s best to find out how big the field is first. Make sure your partner is okay with your size. When they are, pound away.

Tera Firma –  Tera Firma is a beautiful Jersey girl that many desire. She draws your attention and once you get a taste of her you instantly want more. From Cam Model to Porn Starlet, she has grown quickly filling as many roles for her fans as needed! You can catch her regularly on Chaturbate either dancing or laughing, and shes always chasing a good show. If you think you have the charm and class, This one of a kind native American goddess may be for you.

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Hi everyone from SimplySxy, I am Carmene Tan from Malaysia, I’m 20 years old this year and I’m currently a Bachelor of Laws student. I love everything about fashion, beauty and travel and these are the things I enjoy doing the most!

What is your fashion style like?

I love cheeky and cool styles but I love being casual as well. My fashion style all depends on my mood, like sometimes if I want to look sweet, I will wear a skirt to University. On the other way round, if I’m moody that day, I will wear an oversized black sweater with a black cap.

Which is the best compliment you have received?

Strangers complimented me when I have a good hair day and good fashion style in a lift!

Is there any type of food you will never try or are you game for everything?

Uhm no… I’ll never try insect-related foods.

Do you have any hobbies?

I love to watch makeup videos on YouTube, shopping, watching dramas, gym, playing the piano and scrolling through Instagram to see how people style themselves.

Would you rather go sky diving or bungee jumping?

I WOULD GLADLY GO WITH BOTH!!

If you could be a Disney character, who will you choose to be?

Sleeping Beauty, I believe every girl’s dream is to become a princess to the person she loves.  The fact that she’s still looking young despite so many years of sleeping is a bonus point.

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

When a police man stops me at the road side during a road block just to get my phone number.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Carmene. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Sexy is not about how much your reveal your skin, it’s about the attitude, confidence and how you believe in yourself. I believe that a girl who has a nice body figure and a girl who is fat is equally sexy as long as they are confident and believe in themselves. It is the attitude that matters.

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Hi Ty, thank you for having me! My name is Allie Pepper and I was born and raised in Vero Beach, Florida. I am a curvy model and a fashion and lifestyle vlogger. I am compelled to anything that has to do with the fashion industry. I started modeling at 15 years old. However, when I was going away to college I took a break. It always weighed on my mind because of my love for the industry. I started modeling again last year and could not be happier.

What do you enjoy about modeling?

I love so many things about modeling and the industry. First off, I love being in front of the camera and showing that women with curves are beautiful. Being in front of the camera makes me so happy and nothing compares to it. I also love meeting and working with new people on set.

I love that each shoot is a new adventure and you never know what to expect. Working with different teams gives you a unique experience each time. I love being around creative people as it brings out my own creative side and definitely brings out the best in me.

Is there a particular fashion style you are attracted to?

My main fashion style that I am attracted to is trendy and chic clothing. Anything that shows off my curves is what I look for in clothing. But I like to keep it classy and not reveal too much. You have to keep a mystery there for sure.

On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

I would say I’m a 5. I guess it depends on the crowd I’m around… if it’s me and my best girlfriends, maybe that number is higher. But I like to keep a balance between having fun and focusing on my work. Having fun all the time is not good for that model glow!

How do you spend your free time?

I have a YouTube channel dedicated to style and fashion and I even throw some vlogs of my daily life in there. So I’m typically filming videos for my channel or thinking of new ideas for my audience. I’m also the Spokesmodel for Cliquish, which is a community of kick ass female vloggers, so I am often engaging with members of the community.

What movie did you last watch and was it any good?

The last movie I saw was Adrift in the theatre. I really enjoyed it! It was really intense and emotional. I am glad I was able to experience it on the big screen to get the full effect.

If you could travel to any part of the world for an experience, where will it be?

I truly want to see all of the world but if I had to choose just one place, I would pick Paris. It’s a beautiful city and the fashion over there is out of this world! But first… I need to get my passport.

What do you not get about the opposite sex?

I don’t understand why guys my age are so afraid to talk to girls. I feel like the only form of communication my generation cares about is digital communication. When it comes to real life and face-to-face communication guys definitely don’t go out of their way… which is truly unfortunate and something I don’t understand.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Allie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Thank you for having me! I define sexy as being one’s state of mind. Sexy is confidence and self-love. There’s nothing more attractive than confidence and loving every aspect of yourself!

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I LOVE SEX! I’m an International Companion/Escort so my life is sex, and great sex might I add. Sex brings all types of people together and makes the world go around!  I was raised in a Catholic, strict household and I knew from the moment I was a little girl and saw these beautiful glamour icons and how sexy they were that I wanted to be in the sex industry and lavished by men all around the world!

What I Love About Dirty Talk

Dirty talk is one of my favorite foreplay methods and I think when done correctly it can instantly make sex so much hotter! Personally I’m very submissive, so dominant dirty talk drives me wild! Men love dirty talk because they are very visual and hands on therefore, engaging in dirty talk just adds to the experience for them, and assures them, they are doing a great job.

How To Incorporate Dirty Talk Into Foreplay

Dirty talk is THE BEST prior to sex and foreplay because it sets the mood and gives the other real assurance that he/she is ready and wants you.  I find it best to incorporate while kissing and lightly touching by whispering in his ear something you can’t wait to do to him and invite him to the bedroom.  Once we get to the bedroom and foreplay starts being initiated, that’s when I personally go full fledge on the dirty talk and it sends men wild EVERY TIME.

Favorite Dirty Talk Lines

I have a whole little black book of dirty talk slurs I say during sex and depending on the man and the mood is how I choose what to say. However, some of my favorite lines are: “Please come fuck me”, “fuck me harder/deeper”, “I can’t wait to deep throat you”, “oh my god your cock fits perfect in my mouth” and my personal favorite “choke me, spank me, pull my hair”.

Possible Dirty Talk Mistakes

Make sure you know/have a feeling of what he/she’s into. Don’t be too technical, just let your mind wander and be free. Don’t think about it so much, usually just saying what you can’t wait to do to him/her will work with a little personal twist to make it genuine and sexy!

Ava Hadid – I’m a Las Vegas based International Escort that has had PLENTY of sex of men of all types.  My life is SEX and let’s just say if I wasn’t good at what I do I would not be in business Men have written reviews of me and I’m proud to say I ooze sex whether I’m in lingerie in bed with you, or at the grocery store browsing the produce section.

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I’m half Filipino, half Italian from Sydney, Australia. I like to longboard and edit videos/photos and sew costumes for cosplay in my spare time.

What is your fashion style like?

Cute streetwear best describes my style. I love sneakers (for comfort) and I love wearing pink, black and grey. I usually pair my sneakers with dresses or oversized tees and hoodies.

Do you have a beauty regime you follow strictly?

Not so much strictly, but I do make sure I cleanse, tone, and moisturize twice a day. On days where I need a little pick-me-up, I use face masks. I believe in prevention is better than a cure, so I make sure to use anti-wrinkle cream around my eyes to prevent early signs of aging.

Which accessories are a must have in your wardrobe?

Bucket hats and dangly earrings!

Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now?

Many! I’m clumsy, so I’m always tripping or falling over at the wrong time. A funny moment would have to be when I tripped on flat ground while walking the streets of Hongdae in South Korea. It’s embarrassing because the ground was flat, but it’s funny because I tripped anyway.

If you had the opportunity to learn anything in this world, what will it be?

To learn as many languages as I can. Learning a new language can be a pretty difficult and long journey, so if I was given the opportunity to learn as many as I could, given resources and time, I would do it.

Would you rather go bungee jumping or sky diving?

Probably sky diving for that feeling of flying.

What turns you off on a date?

When someone talks highly about themselves, but negatively about others.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Vanessa. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Confidence – but not arrogance. You can be beautiful in and out, but shy away due to insecurity or negative thinking about yourself, but being sexy is when you are confident about who you are as a person, whether it’s your physical appearance or personality or both, while staying humble and down to earth at the same time.

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