Humans are social animals. We need meaningful connections with other humans on a regular basis in order to be healthy, happy, and productive. It’s an unfortunate truth that life can get in the way of staying close with friends from adolescence and it can be really tough, especially for men, to make deep friendships as adults. The result? Loneliness is becoming a real public health problem.

Dating can help combat that. On a date, you can enjoy great conversation and laughter with someone you wouldn’t have met otherwise. There’s no anxiety over whether the person wants to be there with you, or if they’re judging you. You can see a show, share a meal at a nice restaurant, and just open up to someone who’s happy to listen.

Physical affection is also necessary for optimal health and happiness, whether that’s a warm hug, movie cuddles, or something steamier.  Dating is a great way to find a consenting, enthusiastic partner, so everyone can win and we can all feel great.

For partnered people in relationships with a libido imbalance, it can be a good way to take the pressure off of the lower libido partner and help keep both partners happy and satisfied in their stable relationship. I like nutrition – healthy eating is important, but nutritional supplements can help make up any gaps. Extramarital dating can do the same for long term relationships, so that an otherwise great couple doesn’t have to breakup just because of differences in sexual appetite.

Aside from all the health and happiness benefits, dating is also just a great way to destress, meet cool people you wouldn’t have otherwise, and have a good time!

How Do Women & Men View First Dates?

I’ve heard a lot of guy friends say that first dates can feel like interviews. From the moment the date starts, they’re just trying to ‘win her over’ and make a good impression, so that they can secure a second date and, from there, the relationship or intimacy that they desire.

Girlfriends confirm that – they often say that they’re not really there to have fun on a first date, they’re there to assess the guy. Is he interesting, intelligent, funny, successful, well put together, generous, attractive, in line with their vision for what their boyfriend should be? Does he seem like he’s looking for something serious or just playing the field?

Instead of playing together as teammates, with the same goal of enjoying each other’s company in mind, men and women are often positioning themselves as opponents – awful as it sounds, sometimes it really seems like they’re painting it as a game of predator-and-prey, rather than a meeting of equals.

I think that’s such an unfortunate take! It makes the whole thing more stressful than it needs to be, instead of just fun. I love dating as a companion because it gets rid of all of those unnecessary strings, expectations, and barriers that stand in the way of two people just really connecting and having a great time together.

Have You Been On A Bad Date?

I’ve been lucky not to have had any bad dates, but I’ve heard other women say that they’ve encountered rudeness and men who were after only one thing, and as much of it as they could possibly pack into their shared time. Everything has its place and I think that, especially on first dates, people should always expect to spend a little time getting to know their date through conversation before beginning a nonverbal conversation.

Expectations I Have Of My Date

I expect my date to be freshly showered, always respectful, mindful of good sense safety practices, communicative of both their desires and anything that makes them uncomfortable, and more focused on the comprehensive experience than accomplishing a checklist of tasks. This is true whether my date is a man, a woman, nonbinary, or a couple.

In return, I am fully present and engaged, enthusiastic, focused on my date, and genuinely committed for the duration of our time together to providing the experience for them that they’re seeking.

First Date Turn Offs Men Should Never Make

Hygiene is so important, please always show up freshly showered and with fresh breath. If your date is at 3pm in the afternoon, having brushed your teeth that morning isn’t enough!

It’s also always really important to be respectful and not pushy. When you’re respectful, kind, and generous, you make your date want to show you a great time. That’s so much better than demanding it, for everyone involved.

Natalie Hepburn – Multiracial, multilingual, misbehaving Ivy grad. Wanderlusting cutie, sashimi fiend, and cuddly luxury companion in NYC and worldwide.

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Hi, I’m Lily! I am born and raised in the City of Angels. I love spontaneous adventures and ice cream. I definitely have the biggest sweet tooth!

Where do you get your fashion inspiration from?

I get my fashion inspiration from Instagram or whatever is comfortable and makes me feel good!

Are there any quotes or mottos you like to use or resonate strongly with you?

“Become the person you would ideally fall in love with.”

Which is a memorable travel experience (good or bad) you have had before?

A memorable travel experience would be seeing the breathtaking views of Kauai in a doorless helicopter.

What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

I have always wanted to create a personal recipe book, but haven’t had the time to perfect any recipes yet!

If you can have a super power, what will it be?

If I could have a super power, it would be to end all sorts of animal cruelty or to time travel!

Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

I am definitely a night owl! The night lights make me feel alive.

What turns you off on a date?

A turn off on a date would be someone who doesn’t listen to what you have to say.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Lily. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Sexy is being confident and humble!

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I believe traveling and going on extended dates is gaining in popularity. In my opinion, it seemed as though it was previously restricted to mistresses and sugar babies. However, it appears that the idea of travelling with, or spending long durations with your escort is growing in popularity.

I’m always reminding clients and civilians that while of course there’s the boundaries within the framework of the client/companion relationship – there’s ultimately no rules in terms of how you can spend your time together. It is in fact, a relationship, albeit an unconventional one.

When I originally began in this industry, it seemed as if extended duration dates weren’t exactly in demand (or maybe they weren’t for me!)

Many of my clients didn’t realize that I’d even be open to the idea of spending longer with them, let alone feel ecstatic. I know many providers also feel the same way.

I think people are beginning to understand that the friendship you can create with your favourite provider is both of yours to design. We can see each other as often, or as infrequent as you want, and for as long as we’re both comfortable.

Reasons Clients Engage A Travelling Companion

Travelling can be such an amazing experience. Being a big backpacker myself, I’m often finding myself in serene moments, wishing I had someone to share it with.

I think that as the relationship between a companion and her client develops, it can turn into this wonderfully fulfilling, mutually enjoyable experience. It truly is a friendship, and often times, at the end of our dates, my clients and I both wish we had longer together.

Sneaking away for a long weekend, or few days away, allows us to fully let our hair down and unwind from the daily stressors of life. You can be absent from office politics, deadlines, family conflict, and truly be in the moment with her. Think of it as an oasis. There’s something extraordinarily healing when you’re only thought is the way her skin feels under your fingertips.

Preparation Required For The Client Before The Date

This depends on whether you’re meeting her for the first time, or she’s already an established friend.

Some of my best experiences came from a leap of faith, where I flew across the country to spend a few days with a new gentleman. Travelling together on a first date isn’t common, but it does take a lot more preparation on both ends.

For the gentleman, I’d hope that you’ve done your research, and chosen to reach out to someone who really vibes with you. Does her personality seem introverted or extroverted? Do you like the same hobbies? Spending several days together can be either be the most rewarding, or painful experience – make sure you’re spending time with someone you’ll really get along with.

Regardless whether it’s a new friend, or someone you’ve known for a while, there’s still quite a bit of communication required before either of you get on a plane.

How long have you agreed to spend together? When does the time begin? Will you be travelling separately, or together? What is the exact compensation, and how will she receive it? I know it can seem transactional to go over the finer details, however, assumptions and important information left to chance can spoil even the most romantic getaway. Make sure you’re both on the same page.

Last but not least, consider your companion’s preferences, and work out a system that works for you both. As I mentioned, it is a relationship after all. Is she an early bird, or a night owl? Does she need caffeine before functioning? Is there anything you can prepare ahead of time to make her time with you more comfortable? Gentlemanliness goes a long way.

Are There Rules?

Often times, yes! However, every companion is vastly different, as is every client.

When spending extended time together, I encourage both parties to be upfront about their needs. Does he need to fit in a workout first thing? Does she have a daily yoga practice she’s hoping not to neglect? An hour at night for both to catch up on business?

Don’t be afraid to design an environment and relationship that makes you both comfortable. I know of several companions who require a little “alone time” here and there to recharge, while I’m generally okay without it.

Personally, I absolutely must sleep 8+ hours a night, and have tea in the a.m.

My only rule: “Don’t wake me up!”

Madison Winter – Madison Winter, Canada’s self-proclaimed ‘girl next door’ is a high-end companion who lives and works out of Toronto, ON.

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Hello SimplySxy, it’s a pleasure to be speaking with you.  My online personal brand is @hayd3nm3rryn and professionally I am Hayden Van Hulzen.  As a marketing professional, I used my own personal alter-ego to develop a brand identity that I could test and execute my own marketing theories, and thus “@hayd3nm3rryn” was created.

I am from Chicago, Illinois, specifically a town called Gurnee (yes, where Great America is) and I attended DePaul University in Chicago for my undergraduate degree and lived in a high-rise overlooking Wrigley Field. I will always love Chicago but I do consider Scottsdale, Arizona home now.

How did you get started into modeling?

When I was very young, I was already quite tall and thin and was involved in a variety of sports and extracurricular activities.  I was approached on several occasions to be involved in different runway shows and catalog shoots.  One of my first modeling gigs was for a dance-wear catalog.

This was my first paid gig.  Modeling is a lot harder than it looks, but I quickly took to the style of movement while simultaneously posing to enhance the garments or items that I was showcasing.  A great model is truly a chameleon because the intention isn’t to actually outshine whatever you’re marketing, but to actually enhance and add value to it.

From there I went on to model for agencies like Elite Model Management in Chicago (which evolved into Factor Women) and I walked the runway for a variety of local designers and other notable brands like CHANEL and AKRIS.

I had a lot of opportunities to continue with my career in modeling, but I was trying to juggle an undergraduate degree and life at the time, and I chose my degree instead.

I have since continued to do a variety of modeling, acting, and promotional based gigs as I find time in my schedule to enhance and play a role in the marketing flywheel that I have developed for my own personal brand.

Which is the most challenging modeling shoot you have done so far?

They all present different challenges but I think some of the most challenging photoshoots are the ones where you truly have to strip (both physically and emotionally) away all of the things that you are attached to as an individual to truly embody the art that is being captured by the photographer.

Society is so afraid to see itself naked, and I mean this in every possible metaphorical sense.  The norms and mores of society are built off of fear and judgement; there is so little room for anything that embraces true art and the open-mindedness that it requires.  Art is intended to make you feel something and sometimes that can be uncomfortable. It’s through these different lenses that we widen our view, push our own limits, and force ourselves out of our comfort zones.  It is in this moment that we are able to are able to find new ways to look at the world that can be transcendent, revolutionary, and even life-changing.

Do you have any hobbies or interests?

I am an entrepreneur, so my hobby is my business.  But, along with this, I am a Mom first and foremost.  I am a friend to an incredible group of powerful women that uplift me on the daily. I spend time traveling (as I am able), attending various sporting events (NFL/NBA), and reveling in the Fashion and Cosmetics industries.

If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

I don’t want to get existential here but it’s almost impossible not to. Aren’t we all just trying to always find our meaning or purpose?  What is the meaning for our individual existence? We spend our whole lives trying to learn, find, and decide what that is, and we hope on our dying day, to have found that answer for ourselves and to truly be able to leave a legacy behind and rest in peace.

What is the best compliment you have received?

“I believe in you.”  This will always be the greatest compliment I have ever received.

Which flavor best describes you?

I feel like I’m like Sour Patch kids.  Originated in the 80s, timeless, my exterior is electrifying.  There is some discomfort in trying to take me all in, but you crave it regardless.  The people who are fans of me, well they are die-hards, and the ones that don’t really like me, well they still dabble from time to time.

Because the sensation of taking me in, it’s flavorful, different, and one of a kind.  But if you can get past that initial layer that is a combination of so many sensations to process, you get to that sweet center that makes battling the plethora of emotions and responses you have initially, worth it.

What do you not get about the opposite sex?

I don’t understand why men are so conditioned by society to be afraid of partnership or commitment.  They see it as a shackle instead of a boost.  Too many times they try to control their own humanity when it comes to feelings and they ultimately sabotage their own happiness by feeding into this overly chauvinistic mob-mentality.

Modern day relationships just don’t develop the same way.  Social media has given us far too much access.  We don’t have the traditional mindset of “if it’s broken, you fix it.” we’ve moved on to “if it’s broken, replace it” or even worse “it still works, but I’d like to try this new one they just released because it’s popular and fun” and the same is true of modern relationships.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Hayden. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Sexy is a state of mind.

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You may have heard about the full body Tantric orgasm in the past and you may have even experienced something like it with your woman, but truly learning to master this skill will put you in a league of your own among men.

Tantra is a sexual Buddhist and Hindu practice that focuses on connecting the mind, body and spirit through sex so we can experience much deeper levels of enjoyment.

There are many benefits that Tantra brings to the table but here I will give you a detailed step-by-step guide for you to give your woman the best orgasm of her life.

1. ENCOURAGE HER BREATHE DEEPLY

The practice of breathing deeply from the pit of your stomach is absolutely essential in Tantra as it stimulates the release of endorphins and nutrients within the body. With your woman laying flat on her back, place your hand on her stomach and ask her to close her eyes and slowly breathe through her mouth into that area of her body. Get her to repeat this process until she is deeply relaxed.

2. INHALE HER SCENT

Now move alongside her body and slowly tune in to her rhythm of breathing. She will be able to sense you and feel the warmth as you exhale but avoid her erogenous zones at this stage as we want to build her arousal in layers. Ask her to send her mental focus to where ever she is able to sense you breathing on her body. She is likely to be turned on and distracted so remind her to concentrate and continue breathing through her mouth and into her stomach. Stay close and continue until she yearns for you to touch her.

3. KISS HER ENTIRE BODY

Now it’s time to gently kiss her entire body from head to toe with a feather-light touch. Whilst still avoiding the erogenous zones watch how she responds to different types of kisses. Alternate between kissing and taking in her scent, all the while making sure she continues to breathe with her eyes closed.

 4. CARESS HER BODY

With warm hands, gently begin stroking her body with one finger at a time and pay particular attention to the texture of her skin. Watch her every move and see what areas are the most sensitive. You can combine all three elements of breathing, kissing and stroking her entire body. Ask her to focus her mind on wherever you touch, get her to relax and tune in to the sensation. By now your woman will be super turned on and she’ll be aching for you to touch her erogenous zones so now is the time to turn things up.

5. TEASE HER

This type of exploration can easily go on for 20, 30, 40+ minutes without you even touching her most sensitive regions. She’ll be so turned on that she will be dripping wet and begging you to come inside her but it’s important for you to stay focused.

This is when you position yourself between her legs and move in close enough to her erogenous zones for her to pause with bated breath in anticipation of your touch – but you stop just short of them. Work your way up her inner thighs and across her pelvic bone and long her side, back into the centre of her chest up to her neck. At this point, you may even let out a growl as you hover around her throat like a wild animal about to devour her.

Lick, bite, kiss, stroke and scratch her entire body, come in super close to her areola (the dark area that surrounds her nipples) back down to her belly button and on to the area just above her clit. She will definitely need reminding to continue with her deep breathing and make sure she is still focusing her mind on whichever part of her body that you touch.

6. TASTE HER

Whilst resting between her legs, slowly and gently start to lick around her labia majora (the outside of the vagina lips). Come in close but stay on the outside of her vagina working your way down the thighs and all the way back up to her neck. By this point, she’ll be extremely turned on and pleasantly frustrated, and will really want you inside her but stay focused and keep her on track. The reason why you move back and forth, close and then pull out is to build arousal and anticipation in her mind.

The full body orgasm is a result of learning how to build intense arousal through a deep sexual connection. Imagine her as a dial that you can turn up and down based on how much you stimulate her.

But every time you do, turn up the volume a little bit more and then bring her back. Learn the rhythm of her body and practice taking her to the edge where she can feel the thrill of a man who knows exactly how to please her.

7. ORAL PLEASURE

With your woman turned on and swaying back and forth with delight and frustration in equal measure, now is the time to taste her erogenous zones but don’t just dive in. Start at her neck and slowly work your way down, and just when she thinks you’re about to move past her breast area, gently wrap your tongue around her nipple and massage it in your mouth for a short period of time.

Use your tongue and your teeth for different sensations but be gentle as this area is very very sensitive, especially as you would have just spent the last 30-40 minutes or so teasing the life out of her.

Now slowly work your way down towards her vagina but when you get there, pause for a moment, appreciate the gift of her beautiful body and watch as she waits in anticipation of your next move. When you’re ready, gently start to lick and kiss her labia minora (the inside of the vagina lips).

Focus on smooth rhythmic motion and pay attention to how she responds. Lick and kiss other areas of her vagina like her clit and her posterior fourchette (lowest part of the entrance to her vagina). Take time to discover what she responds to most and remember to dial it up and down. The aim is to build her arousal steadily over time so it can intensify.

8. STROKE HER

Your woman will be starting to approach the realm of orgasm but to bring her to this point, you’ll use your fingers. With a single finger, stroke the clitoris in a clockwise and counter-clockwise motion and you can also very gently squeeze it between your thumb and index fingers. The upper left side of the clit is particularly sensitive so pay close attention to how she responds and hold back a bit to build anticipation.

Now slowly insert the tip of your middle finger into her vagina and gently start to explore paying close attention to how she responds. Use a variation of depth, pressure and pace to increase her arousal.

With a finger (or two) facing upwards towards the area of her g-spot at the top of her vagina, slowly stroke your fingers back and forth in a beckoning motion. You can also gently use your tongue to stimulate her clit and place downward pressure with your hand on the top of her vaginal area outside in conjunction with your fingers on the inside stroking her g-spot. Imagine trying to place your fingers on the inside of your palm with her clit in the middle and you’ll get the idea. If she has managed to keep her breathing deep and consistent she’ll be feeling the effects of all the blood stimulating the nerve endings throughout her entire body.

Now is the time to make her orgasm so continue with exactly what you’re doing and encourage her to let go and release whilst she literally breathes orgasmic energy into every part of her body. Don’t speed up or start ramming your finger in like we see in porno movies unless she specifically asks you too. Stay consistent and she should start to feel intense waves of pleasure emanating from her vagina outwards all the way to the tips of her fingers and toes.

As she climaxes keep hitting the same area that gives her the most pleasure. Encourage her to breathe deeper, let go and truly feel the sensation. This is the part where she really shouldn’t give a fuck about the neighbours, tell her to go wild and embrace.

The full body orgasm is just as much about what’s going on in her head, as it is about what’s happening between her legs so remember to communicate with her and stay connected. By this stage, your woman is going to be in her own world and she may very well tell you to shut-the-fuck-up but that’s ok too. It’s her show so do whatever makes her happy.

Note: Many women may take 45 minutes or longer to orgasm so be patient, enjoy pleasuring her and don’t focus on the climax – just let it happen if it happens.

9. AFTERCARE

After a mind-bending orgasm like this, don’t just get up and use the bathroom or check your messages on your phone. Spend some time stroking her entire body with your hands in an outward motion from her vagina. Gently massage certain areas and let her feel the strength of your hands as you slowly start to ground her back into reality. This will feel amazing for her and she’ll probably be wondering what the hell just happened because 95% of men would probably have never done anything even close to this.

SUMMARY

Now here’s where it really gets interesting because once you learn how to nurture this type of arousal in a woman, you’ll be able to trigger it at will. There’ll come a point when all that’s required to make her wet with heart palpitations is the memory of you whispering in her ear and it won’t make a difference where you are or who’s watching.

Women are fantastically complex and finely tuned creatures of vivid imagination and keen perception. As men, if we take the time to learn how to unlock these secrets of arousal, we’ll be able to teach them how to embrace the sensations buried deep within, and both be able to enjoy the fruits of passion.

Peace and Love,

Madison

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Even as a small girl I have always dreamed of living a luxurious life, fantasized about entering high society, living a life that is far from average. After having realized that I cannot find personal fulfillment in civil relationships, yet I was craving male attention and missed dating, I decided to become a high-end escort.

Providing companionship, being kind, compassionate, talkative and feminine is in my blood – catering to gentlemen has been the most exciting thing I’ve ever done.

Increase In Popularity Of Hiring An Escort

The escort industry is a booming practice, and one that probably isn’t going anywhere any time soon. That’s because as casual dating is becoming more and more common, there’s a demand for a non-judgmental environment and a level of intimacy that is experienced during an escort meeting.

Advantages Of Hiring An Escort

The biggest advantage of hiring a professional escort is being able to get what you want, a lady of your fantasies, without playing games.

Escort women are honest about wanting financial gains from a relationship, therefore they often appreciate materialistic gestures more like being spoiled with flowers, fragrance, designer bags or a dream vacation. Many times, clients experience a connection with an escort that may be hard to find elsewhere.

Paid companionship removes the obstacles involved with dating and it is very likely that you’ll get immediate physical gratification. In an environment where both parties can be whoever they wanna be, people are also more likely to discover new things about their sexuality. Many ex models, TV presenters enter the industry, so generally speaking hiring escorts, you have an opportunity to meet the most beautiful, intelligent, friendliest ladies in society.
Hiring an escort for a dinner date or a cozy meeting in your home might ease a difficult period in one’s life such as a death of a beloved friend, work issues or divorce.

What To Know Before Hiring An Escort

There are many ways one can meet a high class escort. It can happen in a hotel lobby or online. Providers can work independently, running their own business or at an escort agency. If you want to make sure that 100% of your donation goes to the girl and you want to communicate with your chosen lady, get to know her personally through a voice call or email. I suggest going for independent companions.

Meeting an escort is just like meeting any other person, mutual respect and good communication are the way to go. It’s important to read the courtesan’s website to get to know her services, rates and hopefully herself, too. Contact can happen through SMS, email or via filling out the booking form. Many ladies consider their safety their priority so you may need to provide verification information such as reference from previous providers, LinkedIn profile or employment info.

When a gentleman is financially invested in the meeting, he tends to value our time more, so for longer engagements, deposits might be necessary. I highly suggest looking at the provider’s social media too, to make sure she’s genuine. Plus you may find a few natural unedited selfies there, too…

Rules A Client Must Follow

Being a gentleman is the most important thing. Try to arrive on time or if you are late, let her know! Give her the donation in an unsealed envelope in the first minutes of the date. If you are very satisfied but don’t have cash to tip her, ordering an Uber is a lovely way to show her your gratitude.

Hygiene is crucial. Just like she goes to the hairdresser and beauty therapist, you need to prepare for the rendezvous, too.

Wash yourself and shave the areas that you want to be kissed. Don’t forget to brush your teeth, your tongue and use mouthwash.

It’s a good idea to bring your own condom if you have a preferred, trusted brand for your size and comfort.
Consent is extremely sexy. Not all providers are comfortable with everything so maybe whisper in her ears during the session, “Do you want me to …?” When asked so nicely, the answer is probably going to be positive.

And most importantly, don’t forget to have plenty of fun!

Jadranka White – My name is Jadranka. I’m a high-end companion based in Budapest, Hungary available for international affairs with advanced notice. I’m a very selective freckled blonde bombshell who’s interested in fine dining, healthy life, politics and traveling.

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Masturbation is a wonderful experience! It allows any woman or man to get more familiar with their sexuality. I’ve enjoyed intense sensations and orgasms daily. Masturbation has helped with my overall sexual confidence, and how I view sex as a whole.

Does Using Sex Toys Make The Experience Different?

Honestly, it depends on the person. Each person’s experience depends on their mindset and the anatomy. For some people, their body’s makeup will not allow them to use certain toys, and some cannot psychologically use toys to achieve an orgasm. Now, with using toys, you can obtain some that use vibration, or have special additions to the makeup of the toy. With fingers, you have more mobility.

For me, sex with toys allows me to reach areas comfortably and experience stronger orgasms. When I use my fingers, I am able to squirt. This is because I prefer to play with my G-spot with my fingers.

What I Love To Use

I love to use Hitachi wands and I enjoy using my lush.

Should Every Woman Try A Toy?

Yes, every woman should at some point try masturbating with a toy. You can never know the true feeling of an orgasm with a toy until you use one. A woman doesn’t necessarily need to own a toy for a long period of time, but she does need the exposure to toys. It widens a woman’s plane of pleasure, or lets a woman know what she likes, and what she doesn’t.

Tips To Buying The Right Toy

She should go to different bedroom toy parties, ask friends for their opinion, go to a sex professional, or go to a safe space with someone she trusts where she can experience the toys first hand before she commits to buying one.

Crystal Cooper – Hello! I am Crystal Cooper. I am new to the sex industry and I have well versed myself in different fields. I am a sex coach, content creator, legal courtesan, dancer and new porn actress. I enjoy sex and helping other exploring new avenues of sexuality.

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I believe that sex is the glue that holds and strengthens the bond between two people in love. Whatever a couple does in private is only important in that they meet each other’s needs.

For me as a heterosexual man from a conservative family I was nervous about receiving anal intercourse from this beautiful Trans woman the first time. Even more so was performing oral sex. But I felt completely natural because we loved each other. I should point out for clarity, we were a versatile couple.

What I Love About The Transsexual Community

The transsexual community offers a wonderful openness once they know you are true in your motives. I found a love, devotion and passion I’d never known.

Tips To Be A Good Lover

Listen to your partner, talk about what pleases her. Like any couple, communication is key.

Be open to new experiences, you’ll be much happier for it. And finally, give all the passion you have.

What To Avoid

Remember, you’re with a woman, even if the sex acts are a little different. Treat her like the woman you adore.

Dr.  Michael Justice – I’m a 50 year old retired medical researcher who was disabled by a truck vs. car accident. I was the happiest in my relationship with my transgender girlfriend and welcome another.

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Hi, my name is Joanna, I am a full-time pharmacist and part-time “influencer.” I was born and raised in SoCal and currently live in Los Angeles.

What hobbies and interests are you into?

Since I was five years old, I have always been really into fashion. I remember going into department stores as a kid and picking out cute miniskirts and bell-sleeved tops. When it came time to choosing a major in high school, I always wanted to pick a career path in fashion. However, my parents always warned me about the importance of financial security and I was too scared to pursue my dream. I ended up picking pharmacy (which I eventually grew to love).

As I came closer to getting my doctorate degree, I started to feel more and more upset at the idea of going through life not doing what I truly loved. With this thought in mind, I started posting outfit photos on Instagram, eventually grew a following, and started working with brands I love! Instagram has become my fashion outlet and is now one of my biggest interests.

Traveling is another huge interest of mine, as I love to taste and experience different cultures around the world. In the past couple years, I have traveled to Paris, Rome, Florence, Venice, Chicago, New York, Cancun, Tulum, Barcelona, London, French Riviera, and Monaco. I am always looking forward to my next escape!

Which is the best compliment you have received before?

I think one of the best compliments I have received is that I have really grown as a person. I am always striving to be a better individual whether it’s improving on actively listening to my friends when they talk about their problems or being more understanding of people and being less judgmental.

Do you believe in any superstition?

I don’t really believe in any superstitions. However, I would never mess with anything paranormal such as a ‘haunted’ house or an Ouija board!

How much of a foodie are you?

I am a VERY big foodie. I am always excited to try out new restaurants and desert destinations. I wouldn’t really be able to pick a favorite type of food either D:

What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

I have always wanted to take kickboxing classes! I have never been the athletic individual, but the idea of kickboxing has always been interesting to me. However, I would ideally want to take classes 2-3 times per week, but have never had availability in my schedule to do it!

Which flavor best describes you?

That is a weird question! I think I would be sweet and sour.

What is a funny or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

Just last week I was working at the pharmacy and a guy was waiting for a consultation to ask a question to a pharmacist. I was assisting someone else, but I felt him looking at me. The pharmacy was super busy that day and the lines were insane, but I saw him continue to wait for maybe 25 minutes. Eventually, I go up to the window and ask what his question was.

He proceeded to ask for a medication recommendation for his mom. After I gave a recommendation, he asked me for my number. Now this may not seem awkward, but keep in mind, the whole pharmacy and all the people waiting in line heard this and heard me tell him, “sorry, I have a boyfriend.”

My Instagram DMs are a whole different story.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Joanna. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Confidence is sexy. There isn’t anything sexier than someone who loves herself or himself in a non-self-obsessed way.

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My general views towards sex…Are that women and girls get “morally bullied” into a set of so called guidelines that men are not made to adhere to. I believe (and by the way I am Christian, but liberal), I believe that sex between adults and consensual sex is a matter of choice and should be enjoyed without hangups imposed by others.

I do as a parent still believe in my daughter and sons at least having their first time with someone they love …but I am not overly obsessed with them being married to enjoy it.

Have fun but be responsible.

(sidenote I am also TRULY bisexual, so yes I am very sexually open and liberal.. Hence my occupation haha)

What I Love About Sex Work

I was always pretty sexually open once I lost my virginity. Not so much in the regard to the amount of partners but just different sexual things and experiences. I used to have probably more random sex after my first two serious heartaches between ages of 17-19 than I did my first year of escorting. (being honest). I chilled, had kids, (two before marriage and one during and two more after), then when we split because of my affair with a woman I was working CNA work and realized if and when I needed an attorney, I’d need real money. So I decided to cash in on my sexuality, looks and intelligence.

I began practicing S.T.O.P

State

Tax

On

Pussy

What I enjoy most about sex work is that I get to make my own schedule, have more time for being a Mom (even if at times my kids don’t think so). They were too young to remember the 16 hour nursing shifts and me LITERALLY never being home.

Also just the fact that I don’t have to stand on my back, punishing my body to make per day what I can make per hour. I should note though that after 18 years in the industry and after Fosta/Sesta, I am semi-retired.

My main business these days is the Web Design and Assistant Business that allows me to make a living and to also help other sex workers grow and become the best they can be.

How The Sex Industry Is Like

I think this question is one that is going to vary based on experience. I came in at 31 years old and from a little more than average childhood with no real serious history of abuse, or drugs etc.  I was privileged in that regard. But I have at times found myself in hell and struggling. It’s like life, there are ebbs and flows.

I think for me overall (other than two arrests and one sexual assault…just without the beating) I have had a kinder career than most. But I also think that my personality and the way I simply let folks know I will NOT take anyone’s BS has kept me somewhat safe from the real crazies. But I will say this…this industry demands thick skin. A lot of girls come into it and think it’s all fancy lingerie, and fun, and trips.  They forget the long hours of admin work, the marketing, the funds to cover ad costs. They don’t consider the dangers of it. While most trafficking stories are propaganda to push political agendas, there are also REAL victims. (That’s another topic, for another time) but yes sex work is dangerous, risky hard work.

I am fortunate that I have been able to live “out” so therefore people cannot out me, but they have tried. But for many, sex work is a lonely life. No matter how great they try to make their lives look on social media. It’s lonely if you don’t have anyone to talk to and who won’t judge you. So many live with the fear of being found out, with being scared to embark on love and life.

I guess to sum it up…Sex work has plenty of PROS but beware of underestimating its cons.

Overall I’d say for me, I don’t regret a moment of it. It helped me grow, become stronger and to a point where I now own two businesses of my own that allows me to help others.

Frustrating Misconceptions About Sex Work

OMG, mainly these two..

We are all trafficked, all of us are victims whether we know it or not they say.

I am not a victim, I made a choice. My choice was to profit off something that’s absolutely natural. Men may not like this point of view…but even your wife, your girlfriend expects you to support her. Even if she has her own money…she expects it. If you don’t do those things, she puts you on the couch!  When men take a civvie girl out to dinner and they pay for dinner or buy her an outfit, they do it in hopes of getting laid either that day or in the future. All relationships to some degree are business.

This way, it’s all out in the open. In other words, no matter what TV and news want you to believe, we are not all victims.

The idea that sex workers are full of disease and that no one would be married to us, or in relationships with us..

This is crazy…If you liked it enough to pay for it, you better believe someone will fall in love with us.

We are human beings, with human needs just like anyone else. I have an 11 year life partner, who’s also my co-web designer.  I have kids, hell, I have grandkids. I am a real person…We all are.

As for the disease stuff…Look people, our bodies are how we make our money. That means it’s even more important for us to stay clean and to protect our reputations and to not cause harm to anyone else. We don’t want your wife or whoever to get sick. We’re a much safer bet than the random hookup online. We are tested often and most of us, (I cannot speak for everyone) practice safe sex.

Are There Ways To Prevent Such Misconceptions?

I don’t know. I myself have been advocating, blogging and trying to get men and women to view us differently for YEARS.  The problem is that people forget there is strength in numbers. More people should be sharing their REAL life stories. The human side of them, not just the character.

They portray. If we want the world to remember we are people just like them, we have to push that narrative. We have to be seen and heard.  We need to take away the terms “Prostitute” and make the world acknowledge that sex work is WORK. I know some think using that term or the term “Hoe” gives us some power. I disagree, they are terms made up by men and prudish women.  We are workers, we work the sex industry..and we deserve to be called a title that is respectful.

Stop letting men call you things that are derogatory. Stop letting review culture define what and who you are as a companion etc.

Have a voice, share your stories and educate the masses…Let them know what we really do. Let them know it’s not all lingerie, sex and B.J’s.

What To Be Prepared For Prior To Being A Sex Worker

That there will be slow periods. Years ago when I started in 2001…Yes we made boat loads, but the atmosphere was different. We didn’t have to screen hard etc. We kinda just posted, got cute and worked. I always had a site and operated like a real business, but honestly back then…you didn’t have to. NOW you really have to!

Know that both the men and other sex workers can and will be great to you, but they can also be cruel as fuck to you. Be ready for it and learn to shake it off and keep making your coins.

Don’t be paranoid or self sabotage by over thinking things. Scared money doesn’t make money.

Yes, you must screen and operate with CAUTION, but not fear.

When it’s tough work on your marketing, see what you can do better. Don’t throw in the towel instantly. But if you or your family are doing bad and it’s losing your home etc…find a way to have a second gig to make your ends. Lots of sex workers can no longer survive off sex work alone.

Seductive Storm – I am a 49 yr old VIP BBW Escort. I am located in the Atlanta area but do travel as well. I am the perfect date for the man who craves more than the usual bedroom only date.

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I am the creator of TAKEN BY STORM. I provide, SEO, WEB DESIGN, SCREENING AND BOOKING ASSISTANCE , AND PHOTOGRAPHY TO OTHER ESCORTS.

I also am still providing escort services myself as well. I plan on visiting Chicago , DC (I’m from the Baltimore/DC area originally) and other places.

I am always available for Fly Me To you.

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Hi! Thank you for having me. My name is Emery Pan and I am originally from Canada.  I moved to the United States and joined the US Army when I was 20.  I served one term as a paratrooper in the 82nd airborne division, deploying to Afghanistan in 2017. Now I am a veteran working in real estate investing and live-streaming on Twitch in my spare time. I also travel extensively and have been all over the world.  I am actually in Vietnam right now!

What is your proudest achievement so far?

Being able to help out my fellow veterans by employing them and training them to have financial literacy after the military.  I will be publishing a book in the early part of 2020.

How is a typical day like for you?

I travel so much, there is no such thing as typical.  The only thing consistent about my day is that there never seems to be enough hours.  I’m constantly traveling, seeking a life of breathless wonderment.

Which is the best compliment you have received?

A Colonel told me that he hopes his daughter grows up to be like me one day.

Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

Be the queen of a small country?  But in reality, I’ve always wanted to learn how to dance.

If you could collaborate with anyone past or present, who will it be?

Nellie Bly! She was an American investigative journalist and after reading the book “Around the world in 80 days”, wanted to see if she could do it.  In 1889, she set off alone with one suitcase and managed to circumnavigate the globe in 72 days.

On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you?

I have eaten exotic foods all around the world but I’m just as happy eating mac and cheese out of the pot cross-legged on my kitchen floor.  So maybe a solid 4?

Are there any exciting projects you have coming up for the rest of 2019?

Finishing my book and looking at raising funds for a development project in the Adriatic Sea.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Emery. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

I find the most erotic organ to be found between the ears, not between the legs.  Sexy is a person who understands that eroticism starts long before the bedroom, the best words are the ones that don’t come from the tongue.

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At times, sex can be a metaphor for the human condition. There are moments of levity and absurdity but also of hurt and sadness. I seek to find the moments where those overlap. Where sex can at once help you work through hurt and sadness but can also be a source of pure joy through physical and emotional connection. Plus, being naked with someone is almost universally fun!

What Is Sensual Exploration?

To me, sensual exploration is the process of uncovering and exploring those desires that one may have been repressing. We live in a society that tends towards restraint of those desires and I hope to help people to explore that which they may feel they may not be able to.

Misconception Of Sensual Exploration

That it’s therapy. I’m not a licensed therapeutic professional, nor do I want to be. It’s also not just where a client dumps all their shit onto me and expects me to sort through it. It is a conversation where we talk more than we act. It is not boundary less; I hold firm to what my comfort level is and within that space is where the most joy can be found.

How Has Exploring One’s Sexuality Help Their Sex Lives?

I liken it to wearing heavy garments. It’s hard to have sex if you’re wearing a fur coat (though, you could try). Exploring one’s sexuality allows you to be nimble, emotionally flexible and open to possibilities.

Ways or Techniques To Help Clients Explore Their Sexuality

My favorite types of clients are men who are exploring their bisexuality. I derive great pleasure from helping those men who have desires that they’re unable to fulfill in their “everyday” sex life. Without giving away all my tricks, I think my favorite way to help men explore is to give “lessons”. That way, they’re safe to explore with me by their side but also with a caring individual handpicked by me to help them on their journey.

Aviva Anders – I like to think of myself as “Albert Brooks were a woman. And sexy”.

I offer traditional companionship as well guided sensual learning experiences for men and couples. My specialties lie in sensual connection and kink exploration experiences, and in helping you with overcoming inhibition. I also provide couples with intimacy instructional consultations.

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Hi guys! My name is Irene (despite my Insta handle being @not.irene), and honestly I never know what anyone means when they ask where I’m from lol. I’m a Taiwanese who’s born in Oklahoma but living in California hahah.

What is your beauty regime like to look so beautiful?

Beauty is internal and external! Happiness on anyone is the most beautiful thing ever. As for external beauty, little details go a long way! I never go to bed without brushing my teeth, I always find a gym whenever I’m vacationing, and of course all the basic-ish like exfoliating, face washing and keeping my brows in check because I used to have caterpillar brows lol.

Do you have any hobbies or interests?

FOOOOOD! This is a habit I gotta kick but I eat when I’m bored, happy, in class, or in distress. I have a video of me eating Chips Ahoy cookies when I got stuck in a baby swing while the fire department were sawing me out. Besides that, I’m a student at two different colleges studying business and real estate. I dance hip hop in LA and sometimes do aerial silks, surf in the summertime, cheer for my college’s football team, and work at a gymnastics gym. To say the least.

How do you like to spend your weekends?

FOOOOOD!!! Besides my food obsession, I hate staying indoors so catch me shooting on a beach or dragging my boyfriend out to the mall to fuel my shopping addiction. There were also a couple times where I’d grab my friends and randomly drive seven hours to Mammoth Mountain lol.

Which 3 items are most important in your wardrobe?

EVERYTHINGGGG!! Back when the Woolsey fire hit LA, I would not leave my house until I packed every single clothing article, every good shampoo and conditioner, every pair of shoes I had and every makeup palette.

If I was forced to choose three though, I would choose my good butt jeans, a lingerie bodysuit, and my stiletto heels.

On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

Honestly I’m either cracked out (not literally), blacking out in the doorway of a hotel with people stepping over me or having an anxiety attack and hiding in the corner. There’s literally no in between. So I’d say I’m a negative 3 or a 13.

If you could have a superpower, what will it be?

TELEPORTATION because one time I drove three hours for crepes and if I could teleport then I could go all over the world and snatch up all the food I want.

What turns you off on a date?

When a guy’s normal. I hate normal people. Normal people scare me.

Also when a guy thinks that bragging/lying about their fortunes will draw me in LOL I’m not out here looking for a sugar daddy.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Irene. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Sexy isn’t just having your tits and ass out, it’s genuinely loving your body and being comfortable in yourself despite society’s standards for women/the modeling industry. Knowing that you are more than your looks, more than the likes you get on a photo or the number of followers you have.

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Salutations!

My name is Winnie Elle. I’m a full service Sex Worker based in the United States. My job has taken me from the coasts of California to the Her Majesty’s United Kingdom. Sex, much like in the name, is my profession. I am very open with myself and my subsequent views on sex. I view it as a very natural and necessary part of the human experience. I understand that for so many people, it’s taboo and uncomfortable but many of us crave sexual intimacy and that’s okay.

Does Being Nervous Affect Sexual Performance?

It’s very natural to feel nervous in the moments leading up to sex. Am I attracted to them, are they attracted to me? Will it be good? Will I please them? Will they find me desirable once we shed our clothes? There is a lot that can run through our brains that could cause us to feel uneasy before we do the dirty deed. It’s normal. I feel it all the time.

Honestly, once your eyes meet, and your skin becomes acquainted with theirs, the fear falls away. Don’t get me wrong, there are moments where you can be pulled out of your headspace and the anxiety can set back in. But if you and your partner have good chemistry and patience, falling back into each other comes with ease.

Some Reasons Men Feel Nervous Before Sex

One of the biggest reasons men have had reservations with me is the expectations of sexual satisfaction. What are they used to? Have they been with someone more endowed/experienced than me? Will my sexual preferences scare them off? How will they react when I ask for X?

Each body is a different machine. Pressing the same order of buttons may not yield similar results. It’s a nerve wracking and exhilarating experience to be with someone new. It’s best to be as open as you can with your needs and boundaries so that you both can enjoy good sex.

Calming The Nerves Of Your Sexual Partner

When it comes to calming the nerves of a new sexual partner, I like to physically give them space. Some people are not fond of the hollywood experience of ripping each others clothes off and melting into a carnal fantasy. It helps to have relaxing conversations and to share a few laughs. A smile is a powerful thing.

I try and pay close attention to their body language to get a feel for their level of comfort. As they begin to relax, I will sit next to them and begin to caress them. All while carrying a conversation, I would undress them and the rest is magic.

Tips To Enjoy Sex

There is no one way to get into the zone for sex. Some need to be talked to, some need thorough foreplay, some need a stern hand and sharp tongue. What is most important is being sure that this person is someone you want to engage with and vice versa. Being sure you both want each other takes so much of the uncertainty away.

Beyond that, remember that sex is fun. It’s fun! Try not to take yourself so seriously that you forget the joy in getting tangled up in the person in front of you.

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Well, I was born in Great Britain, Kettering, but mostly grew up in Italy and Russia.  Now I live in Russia, Volgograd ^^

How long have you been cosplaying and why do you love it?

I like gaming, anime and manga since 2015 year. This year I made my first cosplay (if I may call it that) of Maxine Caulfield from the game Life Is Strange. But I think I started cosplay only in June 2018, and it was Yuno Gasai from Mirai Nikki.

Which characters do you love to cosplay and why?

I really like to cosplay Yandere characters, they are very cool and interesting, I like the facial expressions and charisma of such characters, bloody scenes X.

Which is a memorable cosplaying experience you had that you can share with us?

The biggest experience I got was from cosplaying Diva and 2B. At Diva, I changed different parts in the suit, added new ones, and made the suit / craft better. At 2B, I customized the katana, painted it, and made it detailed.

What is the best compliment you have received?

I am happy from all the compliments haha.

If you could be a superhero or super villain for real, who will it be?

D.Va 100% X. I like her because she is super kawaii but she is very powerful and have cool meka.

On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you?

I think it’s 7 of 10, cuz I’m like exotic but not always o.o

What is a lame or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

One guy from my city wrote to me, “I’m ready to pay you $ 1,000 a night if you will have sex with me,” I told him that I am not a product and also wrote, “you can discuss this with my boyfriend, idiot.”

To which he also gave me his answer, “YOUR GUY CAN STAND AND FAP NEARBY.” It was insanely stupid and I just added this guy on the black list. I don’t even know what he expected …

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Anastasia. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

I don’t know, but for me, sexuality should be inspiring, and there should not be too much vulgarity in it. It should be like a work of art.

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The kinky GFE is the most sensual and sweet twist of BDSM, it is the quintessential spicing things up in a setting that still has a sweet, vanilla taste undertone; while I’d define sensual domination as a pungent BDSM flavour mixed with classic eroticism.

To me, sex feels like dreaming somehow, like being in a different, freer space, where connections are very strong and raw. Sex is an essential part of my way of expressing myself and exploring connections. It is a side of me that is intimate and different from everyday life, and at the same time is vital.

The GFE & Why It Is Popular

The Girlfriend Experience is the idealised and unearthly girlfriend of your dreams, and why not? It is everything that you ever wanted from an amour, the connection, the hot sex, the fine dining after visiting an exhibition together. And if you are curious about kink, someone who has more expertise but who also enjoys the sensual and erotic moreover than the purely psychological.

Some Ways To Kink Up The GFE?

Tease and denial: look your partner in the eyes, give them so much pleasure that it almost brings them over, but retain control: don’t let them topple over (note: or: “to enjoy” would sound better?) just yet. They are in your hands, and the longer the game lasts, the more you will see them turn into luscious jelly.

Also: foot fetish, a favourite of mine, having your partner kneeling in front of you, pacing it slowly by starting with a massage, then just smelling your beautiful feet, and gently kissing them…

A great classic is to blindfold and gently restrain your partner, heightening their sensations and playing with the senses.

Safe Kinky GFE Play For All

As usual, consent and communication are the keys. Establishing safe words can also be liberating as they give a very quick and unequivocal communication; I really like the light system: where “yellow” means go on, but adjust a bit, and “red” is a clear: stop now.

Another sure way is just to enjoy each others with your hands, whispering your fantasies to one another: playing with words can be so vivid…

Arazatah – Arazatah’s total black, straight from Milan style encases a vintage hourglass figure and a sweet personality that is fulfilled in sensual domination and lovely vanilla GFE. Highly educated, this edgy Italian amour will seduce you to create unforgettable moments.

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Usually in London, sometimes in Milan. January in Italy, 29/01-3/02 in Paris, back in London in February

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Hi, I’m Kido Chan, I live in Italy and I’m a cosplayer and cosmaker! My art name is “Kido Chan cosplay” and it’s my nickname for all the social network.

I’ve been a part of this world for a while now, but I started dedicating myself seriously only after my weight loss (at first I really weighed a lot).

I love cosplay, it makes me feel good, I have fun and I like to create accessories and costume parts, both for myself and for others (it’s so fun!).

How did you get started into cosplaying?

I started a few years ago when I met an important person that become part of my life, who urged me to start and never give up. I’ve always loved the world of cosplay, but I never had the courage to start!

Which is a memorable cosplay experience you have had so far?

The most important experience was to be a cosplay’s judge for a contest for the first time!

That was a really important year for me, full of positive experiences.

Do you have any advice for someone looking to get started into cosplay?

Never give up! At the beginning, we think we are not able to do anything, but you need to be stubborn and improve yourself by learning, growing and evolving!

What is a common misconception about cosplayers you usually hear?

The misunderstanding that I often hear about cosplayers is that they often compare us to something not very serious or that we are people who waste time.

Is there something you’ve always wanted to do or learn but haven’t had the time?

I would love to learn how to use resin for my cosplays! It fascinates me a lot and I often admire those who use it for their costumes!

Which flavor best describes you?

I’m not sure, but the flavor that best describes me is that of strawberries! Sweet, with a good smell ( I really like strawberries and they taste great with chocolate, which I love!).

What is a funny or lame attempt a guy has tried to know you?

I don’t think it’s funny, but perhaps the most annoying attempt is that of how much a guy keeps writing to you and even though you tell him you’re not interested…keeps writing even if you don’t answer him!

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Kido. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

It’s a very difficult question for me, but I think that to be “sexy” the eye glance is a really important element, for a cosplayer, it’s important to talk with its eyes!

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I believe that sex work can be the most feminist thing you can do. I own my body and rights completely. I work for myself and have started my own business. Sex workers help the economy. We are the oldest running profession and deserve much more respect than we are getting.  We truly make the world go round!

Why I Decided To Go Into Sex Work

I was 21 when I first started as a stripper in Portland Oregon. I was tired of making little money in retail and being treated less than. This girl who would come into my retail place said I would definitely make money as a stripper. I waited to turn 21 because the club she worked at wouldn’t hire under 21. It was the best choice I have ever made. It changed my life in a very powerful way. From stripping, I met my first sugar daddy. Then got into escorting from there.

Does Being In Sex Work Affect Ones’ Non-Sex Work Relationships?

I don’t think being a sex worker should affect any of my relationships but sadly, it can. I just don’t give those people the time of day. I won’t give my energy to people who can’t understand what I do. I mean, I can’t tell my family sadly, but they don’t need to know what I do exactly.

Challenges I Experienced So Far

Well some challenges I have faced are mostly due to my body not being this “certain” type. Plus I am alternative as well. It only has stopped me from working at the “nicer” clubs but still make great money working the clubs I do. Plus, I don’t see it as a challenge any longer!

Weirdest Requests From Clients?

I don’t like to use the word weird but since I am open-minded I get guys wanting things that maybe not all sex workers would be open to doing. I just know I am very non-judgmental. (:

Typical Myths About Sex Work

To the people who think we are all forced into doing this, YOU are very wrong. We are not all forced (and to the people who are, I feel for them and hope to see change in that) we want to do what we do. Which is making others happy and supporting our own dreams. I am privileged to be able to use my looks and my mind to help achieve my goals. I am truly blessed with the life I have, meeting so many wonderful sex workers along the way!

Mila Pixie Rose – Mila is a sex worker from Portland Oregon. A magical and ethereal Goddess to help fantasies come true. She is a writer, director, designer and soon to be tattoo artist. She is a very ambitious and strong willed young woman, follow her on her journey!

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