Hi, my real name is Khloe but I am known as ‘Dahlie’. I currently live in Quebec, Canada. At day I work as a Claim Adjuster for an Insurance company and at night, I am a Twitch streamer. I love gaming, geeky stuff and I could spend my life on 9GAG.

What is your proudest achievement so far?

Recently, one of my dreams has come true; to become affiliate with Twitch. Being affiliate means that people can subscribe to you (4.99$/months) and you can start to earn money with that. There’s a lot of perks that comes with being a subscriber to a Twitch streamer. For an example, all my subs have access to my personal Snapchat and Discord channel so they can spend more time with me when I am ”off Stream”.

Which is the best compliment you have received?

When I started streaming, someone had told me that it wasn’t going so well in his life and that spending time with me and being able to talk to me was the only thing he was looking forward to. It simply was the best compliment because I’ve always wanted to be able to help and inspire people by doing the thing I love the most.

Do you have any hobbies?

Other than gaming, I play the piano and violin since I was 4 years old (music has always taken a huge place in my life). I also make sure to have a book in my purse so I can read whenever I have the time.

On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you?

I would say 10 for the simple fact that I could never refuse food hahah. I love eating, trying new stuff and going to good restaurants. How could I refuse a good meal with a glass of wine?

Is there any superstition you believe in?

I believe in the superstition that if you break a mirror it’s seven years of bad luck. I’ve always been very careful with them!

If you could travel to any part of the world for an experience, where will it be?

Without hesitation I would go to Antarctica. It has been a dream of mine to do an Antarctic Cruise and see the glaciers and the beautiful landscape. Since I’m living in Canada, I’m not afraid of the cold! Furthermore, I really love penguins and I would be so excited to see some in their natural environment.

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

I receive lots of message on Instagram per day. I don’t always answer to all of them but I do take the time to read each one of them. One day I received a message from a guy and he was saying that for our first date, we should do something casual like going to my favorite restaurant. He told me that after that, we would go shopping for my wedding ring and started to find a venue. I laughed hard when I read that. For those who are wondering, we’ve never even gone on a date hahah.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Dahlie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

I define sexy by being unique and owning who we are. After all, I do think that life isn’t about finding ourselves but creating ourselves.

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Upcoming Works: Right now,my only goal is to keep working hard on my stream

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Kink and alternative lifestyles are my lifeblood, if no one was freaky in bed and no one lived differently than the standard relationship, I’d be a sad girl. I’m very open minded to all kinks, whether it be feet or flogging, pain or punishment. I love to surprise people with this, because most don’t expect this from me.

Why BDSM Appeals To Me

What drew me into BDSM, and a large reason of why I believe it’s popular, is because it plays on control. For someone like me, who is in control of everything all the time, switching it up and letting someone else take the reigns and decide what to do is fun. It doesn’t hurt that I’m a bit of a masochist and giggle when flogged.

Introducing BDSM To Someone New

If I meet someone who is nervous, but wants to try BDSM, I’ll show them how to use the tools on them first, nice and light, just so they can feel how it’s supposed to go. For example, someone wanted to use my flogger on me, but has never used one before, I lightly flogged their backside, just barely enough to sting, next to a mirror, so they could see how I was swinging it as well.

Tips For Beginners To Find Their Kink

If you’re new to BDSM and trying to find your thing, I’d suggest trying a little bit of everything. If you already know pain isn’t for you, then I wouldn’t go trying electricity.

If you know you love littles, I wouldn’t look for a Dominant MILF. Be open minded and if you try enough things (or watch enough porn), you’ll find your kink eventually!

Aurora Roseris – Sweet ‘n’ kinky. I love nature, cooking, pain, and gaming. I can be a bratty sub or a cruel mistress, you decide.

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People know me as ellakilla on social media, and I think the one thing you should know about me is that I’m a nice person even though I look like a bitch haha.

What is the best compliment you received?

The best compliment would probably be that I have a nice smile, because I barely smile and I just always have the resting bitch face haha.

Which fashion accessories are a must have in your collection?

I’m not really a fan of accessories but I can’t live without my boots.

Do you have any guilty pleasures when it comes to food?

Filipino food is always my go to, I also love isaw (chicken intestine), dugo (pigs blood) and all other street foods. I grew up loving Filipino dishes.

Are you more of a lingerie or bikini babe?

I think I’m more of a bikini babe, lingerie can sometimes make me uncomfortable and I’m the type of girl that wants to be comfy all the time.

How much of a party animal are you?

I started early so I got tired of it early. I mean I know when to have fun and when to just stay at home and cuddle.

If you could be a fictional character for real, who will you be?

It would be Peter Pan, it’s funny because when I realized it’s so hard to be a teenager I always want to go back and never grow up but I have to face the reality.

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

Guys these days, they’re very aggressive, this guy tried to be something he’s not for me to like him but I don’t roll that way. It’s either be yourself or don’t talk to me.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Ella. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Being sexy doesn’t mean to show of your body, sexy for me means being you and being a individual that knows her worth. So many of us are poisoned by social media, that you have to look some type of way to be sexy and to be known. It’s not suppose to be like that, life is short, be who you really are and don’t be ashamed of it.

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What inspired you to go into modeling?

My mom is a model and my inspiration towards modeling. It’s an outstanding career, and I love it.

Is posing in front of a camera a lot harder than it looks?

Well for people that aren’t photogenic, yes. On the other hand, me with all the energy, happiness, and personality. It’s easy.

On a scale of 1-10, how much of a shopaholic are you?

For sure a 10, I have about 25 online shopping apps and live next too the 3rd biggest mall in America. My shopping is ridiculous!

Is there something you wish could change or do differently if given the choice? 

I have learned to love what I have and enjoy what I do. So the answer to that is no, I wouldn’t change anything.

If you could be a fictional character, who will it be?

Snow White.

Would you rather go deep sea diving or bungee jumping?

Bungee jumping, for sure!

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

One time, a guy pretended to be Israeli and tried to get to know me.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Giselle. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

I define the word “sexy” be beautiful in a provocative matter

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Sex is so fascinating to me. There are so many ways to experience sex and sexuality, and sometimes I feel like I haven’t even scratched the surface. My name’s Demi and I’m a transgender webcam model, adult actress, and electronic music producer from the midwest. I’ve been in sex work for about a year now, and I love it! I used to be very uncomfortable with my sexuality and for that reason I thought I just didn’t like sex. But if there’s one thing I learned from my experience making porn, it’s that there are so many ways to have sex and achieve sexual gratification, and it’s different for everyone!

If there’s one thing I could achieve with my content and my platform, it’s to help people explore and question what it means to be a sexual being and think differently about gender constructs and expression. I’m not quite sure how fucking my ass on the internet will do that just yet, but I’m getting there!

Why I Love Having Sex On Cam

Honestly, it’s the community! I’ve met some really amazing people in my chat and I look forward to seeing them everyday!  Of course it’s super hot to know that hundreds of people are getting off to you, but it’s the people you meet jerking off along the way that last a lifetime. I have also started making content and camming regularly with Lily Demure (@LilyDemure on Twitter) and that’s been an amazing experience! I’ve never had anyone to make content with before, so it’s been great working with her. We have a lot of things in the works right now, so stay tuned for that!

Demi The Human and Lily Demure

Equipment Essentials For A Good Camming Experience

The best thing about getting into cam modeling is if you have a webcam and an internet connection, you’re good to go! You don’t need fancy equipment to make your stream look good. Just try to follow some basic rules of shot composition and you’ll look great!

For example, make sure your shot is well-lit. I’m not talking big Hollywood studio lights. At the very least, don’t make it look like you’re streaming from a hole in the ground.  I recommend setting up your cam in front of a window. That soft, natural lighting is perfect for porn! I used to just gather all the lamps I could find in my apartment and put them all around my room and honestly, it didn’t look bad!

Next is audio. It’s usually the last thing people think about, but it really makes a difference. With a medium like streaming, the conversation aspect is a big part of the experience and a decent microphone (or anything better that your built-in laptop mic) will really add a more professional feel to your stream. I also like to play music while I cam. It’s a great way to add your own personal flair to your show and help deal with boredom on a slow day.

But even if you have the best, most expensive equipment, if you’re a bag of potatoes on cam, you’re just going to be a well-lit bag of potatoes. Your personality and presence is really what will shine through, no matter your budget!

Pros & Cons About Camming

For me, webcam modeling offers me so much freedom, both financially and personally. In our current society where it’s often very difficult for trans people to find jobs, let alone move up in a workplace; I, a trans woman,  am now an independent business owner who has the ability to grow my brand, take time off when I want, and make money doing something I love. I feel privileged to be able to do what I do. I’ve grown and learned so much about myself, my sexuality, and met so many great people along the way.

As much as I love it, there are definitely downsides. If you’ve been on the internet lately, you’re probably aware that a lot of people suck. I’ve dealt with my fair share of transphobia, misogyny and hate in my chat, and for the most part I just block and brush it off, but I’d be lying if I said it doesn’t get to me sometimes. It’s easy to get sucked in a black hole, especially when your job consists of sitting in your room for hours on end. It’s really important to take time to focus on your mental health and take breaks when you need to. That being said, the trolls are a very slim minority, and the majority of my streams are very positive.

Advice For Beginners

Live streaming is such a new and exciting technology, and I recommend taking advantage of the medium to its fullest! Anyone can look up porn video and get off in a few minutes, but the beauty of streaming is the personal interaction aspect. The majority of my show is simply talking with my audience and joking around, not because I’m getting filthy rich off of it, but because I have fun doing it! And if you’re having fun, being yourself, and doing your stream how you want to, it will leave more of a lasting impact.

Demi The Human – Demi The Human is a transgender cam-model, adult actress, independent porn producer and musician from the midwest. She streams regularly on Chaturbate, has content up for sale on Manyvids and produces electronic music under her alias, Floraviolet.

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Hi! I’m Shaina Nazario. 19 year old Dentistry student and fashion model from Philippines. Thank you for featuring me. It’s a pleasure of mine

Is there a fashion style you are most attracted to?

Zendaya! She’s just effortlessly stunning. I love her from her avant-garde to her everyday looks.

What food or drink can you not live without?

I can’t live without RICE. I mean, eating a dish without rice is not just okay (for me). That’s why I have leftovers all the time. When I’m full and there’s food left, I will not finish it.

Have you ever been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now?

When I threw up in the car of my friend’s dad. I hate the smell of car air fresheners and her dad drove so fast (like Fast-and-Furious fast). Our 8 hour drive became 5.

What flavor best describes you? 

Sweet and spicy. I am both.

Would you rather explore space or the ocean?

I’d love to explore space. I want to see the world outside earth. That would be a great opportunity and experience.

What turns you off on a date?

When he talks about his exes and their past. That’s just disrespectful.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Shaina. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

For me, sexy is being fearless and confident. It’s when they look you in the eye and tell you exactly what they think.

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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/100000989718637

Upcoming Projects: Fashion Show this coming June and lot’s of scheduled shoots. (P.S I’m also open for collaboration. If you happen to be in Manila, shoot me a message on my Instagram or e-mail me at nazarioshai@gmail.com )

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Hi SimplySxy! Thank you so much for featuring me! It’s really a pleasure! I’m from the Philippines but I’m currently based in New York to pursue graduate school.

Where did the inspiration to start your website come from?

While I was in college, my friends would always push me to create a blog and I would always find an excuse not to make one because of school. After I graduated in 2013, I found myself not doing anything substantial and I realized I was ready to commit to making one and that’s where my blog – The Style Diplomat – started.

How will you describe your fashion style?

My taste in music is the same as my style in fashion – very versatile. I can go from very feminine to athleisure (or to a mix of both) to boyish. It all depends on my mood!

Which fashion accessories are a must have in your collection?

Stacked necklaces, a watch and a bag!

Is there a memorable travel experience you can share with us?

My most memorable travel experience up to date was my first time in Amsterdam last December 2017. I traveled with my best friend who lives in Paris. He slipped on ice and he broke his ankle! We were only there for the whole day so we spent the whole day at the hospital. He felt bad for me spending my first Amsterdam trip in a hospital so he told me to explore for a few hours and so I did. We took the train back to Paris in the afternoon.

Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

I’ve always been a nocturnal person.

If you could have a superpower, which will it be?

Reality warping!

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

I wouldn’t think it was lame. I found it funny in a way that one guy tried to bribe my friends to join for dinner so I wouldn’t have any choice but to go with him! Haha!

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Liz. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

I define sexy as things that are considered to be “underrated” in this over-hyped social media world. Intelligence is sexy. Vulnerability is sexy. A real conversation is sexy.

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Instagram: @lizdumdum

Website: www.lizdumdum.com

Twitter: @lizdumdum

Facebook: facebook.com/thestylediplomat

I will have a new mini-project soon. It’s about how I edit my photos! So stay tuned!

I am also a current ambassador of Fujifilm Philippines so be sure to check out all of Fujifilm’s cameras and promos!

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I was raised in a Catholic, traditional Chinese household with strict parents.  In both the Catholic community and my parents, I was brought up to think that sex should not happen before marriage and that anything to do with sex should be treated with shame.  I had sex for the first time when I was in college, and even then I ended up crying after it ended because I felt dirty.   I wasn’t able to enjoy it until recently. Soon after discovering my sexuality without any prejudice I quickly blossomed. My exploration led me to become a cam model and naturally evolved to a budding porn star.

Now my idea on sex is very different.  I find it enjoyable and beautiful.  In fact, I think it is vital for human connection.  We should be able to experience it and enjoy it as often as we want as long as we are responsible with it.

Contrary to what others might think about my sex life, I think that the best way to truly feel and enjoy sex is with someone you love.  Someone you can trust and feel comfortable with to explore your sexuality with.  This doesn’t have to be within marriage as I was brought up to believe but we shouldn’t be in a relationship just for sex either.

People often have this perception of me that because of what I do, I sleep around arbitrarily and don’t value the true meaning of sex.  Porn is not sex that I replicate in my relationships.  Porn is a job in which I carry out acts of sex in different scenarios. Sex is still sacred to me and something to be shared with a deserving partner.

Ways To Get Into The Mood For Sex

I usually like to dress up in sexy lingerie so I can feel beautiful.  Lingerie always does the trick for me to get me in the mood because I want to look hot for the guy I am with.  I also love taking a bubble bath together beforehand with a little foreplay in the water with sensual kissing and touching, Set the mood with music, that always works.  Create an environment using candles and ambient lighting.  I think sex needs to appeal to all our senses.  Then relax and enjoy and let the evening take you wherever it will.

The Importance Of Foreplay

Foreplay is really important in my opinion.  In fact, sometimes foreplay can be even better than sex because of the anticipation it brings.  During foreplay, you stimulate each other which leads to better sex.  Honestly, I think foreplay also allows you to get to know each other’s body better and your likes and dislikes.  More importantly, you get to understand what pleases your partner and what pleasures them.  Foreplay can increase intimacy as well, by heightening our senses and helping us reach the ultimate orgasm, or in my case, usually multiple orgasms!

What Guys Don’t Get About Foreplay

Guys tend to just want to get to the sex part.  They don’t see value in spending time on foreplay because for them it’s just about ejaculating.  For women, our bodies are built and wired differently.  Sometimes just sex alone won’t bring us to orgasm.  We need foreplay to stimulate our clitoris.  I find that the more engorged my clit is, the more intense the orgasm.  The more I am turned on, the more into it I get and I think that turns on guys more, when a female is really horny and wants sex, instead of just laying there like cold fish waiting for it to be over.

Foreplay Tips For Good Sex

I am no expert in sex or foreplay, but here are some of the things I enjoy.  Remember, foreplay goes both ways:

Start with a striptease.  That pleases men and makes a woman feel sexy too.

Touch and kiss each other all over the body and then focus on giving oral.  That really does it for me.  Gets me really wet and horny and by the time we actually have sex, I am already having multiple orgasms.

Hot massage, especially focusing on the erogenous zones on the body like the butt and inner thighs.  Ooooh, that can really leave me wanting sex immediately.

Use a toy like a vibrator or cock ring.  Use it on each other or even during sex.

I find that teasing is also great foreplay.  Leave them wanting more until they can’t take it anymore.

Eye contact is something that most people seem to overlook or avoid,  I love eye contact during foreplay and sex.  That is a huge turn on for me.

Lexi – Good girl gone bad is probably the best way to describe me. You can take me to a ball and I’ll make you look like the ”Man of the Year” then go home and make you feel like a porn star. If you like your girl SWEET and SPICY, you’ve found her!

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My name is Caressa Cowan. First off, thank you so much for this interview. I feel very honored to share some facts about myself. I’d like to bring to your attention that I’m your everyday mom, wife and friend. I just love to share my style sense and hope I inspire others to try new looks!

What is your proudest achievement so far?

My proudest achievement hands down had been having my two beautiful little girls. They have brought so much joy to my life.

How will you describe your fashion style?

My style is a reflection of the many hats I wear in life. I’m a mother, homemaker and wife! It’s a mix of boho/chic. I’m very earthy at heart so you’ll see lots of flowy tops and flared denim. I’m a Virgo so I’m really true to my sign as far as style goes!

Which is your favorite type of food or drink?

My favorite food is anything sea food! Right now I’m obsessed with poke bowls! My favorite drink is either iced chai or coconut milk.

Do you have any hobbies or interests?

My hobbies include vintage shopping for one of a kind pieces and constantly looking for ways to grasp more knowledge on any subject, I love learning new things!

Is there something you have always wanted to do or learn but haven’t had the time?

I’ve always wanted to learn to sew and make my own clothing! Also I’ve also wanted to travel and start an organization to help people in need all over the world!

If you can have a superpower, what will it be?

If I had any super power, I would want the power to think of food, like tacos …and BAM! I get tacos.

What turns you off on a date?

I’m married but when I was dating the thing that would turn me off right away is if he was arrogant and rude to people.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Caressa. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

When you are authentically yourself and are completely comfortable in your own skin, that is the true definition of sexy. I think for some women when they become mothers and wives they think that being sexy is no longer needed or acceptable anymore, but it’s actually the opposite! Never stop loving yourself and taking care of your hear, body and mind. Just being yourself is “sexy”!

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Why nuru massage is an excellent way to improve your sexual relationship

If you have been in a sexual relationship for a while and you feel your sex life with your partner is getting a little bit routine, and possibly boring, then nuru massage could be the perfect antidote.

I have personally introduced nuru massage to so many people. When they experience it for the first time they just want to try it again and again.

So what is nuru massage?

A nuru massage is essentially an erotic body to body massage. The difference between a regular body to body massage and nuru is the nuru gel.

Authentic nuru gel is made from from nori seaweed, which is a type of seaweed mainly found off the shores of Japan.

There is no real industrial uses for this gel. What makes this substance so special, for erotic massage in particular, is the fact that it is extremely slippery – and I mean extremely slippery.

The gel is packed full of nutrients which is also good for your skin. Make sure you get the organic gel and not some cheap petrol based substitute.

So why have a nuru massage?

Because it is fun, extremely erotic, and a great way to spend an hour or two. It is also light – we are not talking about introducing hardcore bdsm or anything like that into your relationship. Nuru massage is about getting hot, close and intimate. It is a great way to explore each other.

The Tools and Equipment You Will Need

To get started you will need the following…

• Nuru Gel
• Water
• Bowl
• Wooden Spoon
• Plastic Blow Up Mattress or plastic sheet to cover the bed.

All these items can be bought online.

The nuru gel is mixed with water in a bowl and can then be applied to both you and your partner’s naked body. You can rub and grind against each other for maximum pleasure.

Quick tip:

Make sure the room is at a nice warm temperature. Not too hot but just the right temperature so you can feel relaxed and get into the vibe.

Techniques

There are certain techniques, positions and movements used during a nuru massage. If you can master some of these moves your partner will love you for it. Here’s 3 that are very popular…

Scissor Slide –

This is where you use your legs like a pair of scissors and slide into your partner’s groin area.

Full Body Glide –

This technique is about gliding right across your partners body from toe to head.

Pussy backrub move –

Where the woman can kneel over the man and rub her pussy across the man’s back. Feels very nice for both.

There are many videos online which will show you a full range of moves than you can try.

Conclusion

Nuru massage is a great deal of fun.

At Nuru Stars, we have been giving both men and women nuru massages for many years now. The delight and joy people have when they experience this erotic massage is wonderful to see.

I want to see more couples introducing this therapy into their love lifes, as I know they will enjoy it.

So start off with a sensual shower together and then once you are nice and clean move over to the blow up mattress or bed.

Starting spreading that gel erotically all over each others body and let the good times roll.

Emma is a erotic massage therapist at Nuru Stars – which is one of London’s most popular providers for slippery nuru massage. You can follow Emma on Twitter @nuru_stars

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What is your proudest achievement so far?

My proudest achievement is that many of my fans are not aware that I am a single mom to a two year old, my daughter is by far my proudest achievement in life. I don’t even know what life was before her.

How did you get started into modeling?

I attended a Fashion Institute, FIDM. My degree was in Visual Communications but many of my peers were fashion designers who would choose me to model their designs. I became really passionate about it and I’ve been modeling ever since.

Do you have a very strict fitness regime?

I enjoy fitness and staying in shape but everything in life is in moderation. I go to the gym about two, sometimes three times a week but If I feel like eating a big fat juicy burger and fries over a kale salad, nobody is going to stop me.

Which is the best compliment you have received?

That’s a hard one, all compliments are the best! GUYS! Fact of life, every girl enjoys them and wants them!

What 3 things do you love most about LA?

The three things I love most about LA is the traffic, parking enforcement, and downtown late at night. Just kidding, haha! I love how you can always be in a new and exciting environment especially in my industry, I meet people from all parts of the world, and the freedom to just be creative and be YOU. LA is surrounded with beautiful talent and opportunity.

If you could have a superpower, which will it be?

My superpower would be to fly, I hate the traffic with cars and I travel once a month by plane. I am not the most patient being so I think flying would not only solve a lot of problems but I could travel more without breaking the bank.

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

Wow, um, messaged me everyday for like 10 years now and refuses to stop. I would classify it as lame, not funny.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jessica. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Sexy is being comfortable and confident in your own skin and happy!!

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Instagram: @thejessicaendres 

Email: jessicaendres72@gmail.com

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I think oral sex is not only great but plays an important part during sex. It’s like the appetizer before the main course.  Delicious yet satisfying. I like to receive as much as giving oral pleasure. It’s so much more arousing and a huge turn on for me, especially if it’s a threesome (M/F/F/). I get the best of both worlds.

Men & Women Expect Differently

Yes, men and women have completely different views. Men want to show great oral satisfaction to their partner as much they give them. Women, such as myself,  we want just the same amount as men but we are more like the energizer bunny so we can orgasm and cum as many times as we can and keep going and going until we satisfied.

What Men Want

It’s all about worshiping the penis, balls, and even rimming. Lots of spit, tongue play, sucking and coupling the balls, and for the win, swallowing. Start slow, then gradually build up the motion, put it in and out of your mouth, and work at it till orgasm. Additional bonus points if you allow the guy to come wherever he pleases.

Pleasuring Women Is A lot Different

For women, like myself, it’s a whole different spectrum. There’s something very sensual and passionate when women get intimate with one another . You have a connection with the other woman, get passionate, hug, kiss, then get home base, oral sex.  When I’m intimate with another woman, I get so into it that I literally can’t stop myself from endless wetness. I dive right in it without hesitation. You can also get creative on giving oral pleasure with strap-ons, flavored lubes, oils etc., and positions such as the classic 69 (my all time favorite oral sex position).

Mistakes To Avoid

The most important mistakes to avoid are making sure and absolute first that you are in good health to engage in oral sex or any kind of sexual interactions. Second important thing, watch your teeth. The absolutely buzz kill in oral sex. I can’t stand teeth and nine times out of ten, your partner won’t either.

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I am from Chicago! The south side! Beverly. But I moved to Olympia Fields, IL (the south suburbs) when I was like five. All throughout my life though I often visited Lake Charles, Louisiana where my moms’ side is from. She made sure I was rooted in both my backgrounds up north, and down south.

What is your proudest achievement so far?

I am a homeowner! I also wrote my first book in 2015, published and became an official author. I have my own hot sauce line that I created from scratch too. I have a lot of accomplishments ;). Everyone can read more in depth on my website bio!

On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

I’m a 20! Lol. I go super hard! My red party cup was coined as “Judi Juice”. But I’ve slowed down A LOT since my early 20s. In the decade of 20’s – you will definitely see a change from your early years versus when you are getting closer to chapter 30.

Do you have any favorite motto or quotes you like to use?

I am mostly known for “having the voodoo”. Haha. But nowadays I say “FACTS” and “BIG FACTS” a lot. Like everything is a fact. Lol. I also call people “goofies” a lot. If the shoe fits!!!

Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now?

Way too many to name! Just google me. I’m sure my TMZ and Worldstar videos will pop up. Well actually, don’t!!! Lol. Don’t judge me!

Which was the last movie you caught and was it any good?

Winchester was awesome! I love horror movies. But not the corny kinds. The scary movies with a really good plot that makes it even scarier. Believable. Especially when it’s based on real life events. It was great.

If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

For people to be impressed without sight. If the world was blind who would you impress? I’m also totally over the agenda most blogs are pushing. Completely brainwashing people. Folks need to wake up and understand this is all a distraction. And kids need to get off of tablets and smartphones and go outside and truly live… like we did in the 90s.

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

I have a lot of crazy stories but nowadays if a guy shows the slightest bit of overstepping his boundaries he gets blocked asap. Especially since I am in a relationship with a female right now.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Judi. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Being completely you. There’s only one. Authenticity, funny, and sweet. Stand out from the crowd and rock to the bass of your own beat. And stand up for yourself at all cost.

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What is your proudest achievement so far?

Building my brand Not Another Blonde to what it is today.

Where did the inspiration to start your business come from?

Feeling uneasy at the thought of working for someone else for the rest of my life… or I guess that’s what my motivation is now. I started Not Another Blonde because it was my dream. I had (and still do have) a passion in me that hasn’t been fulfilled doing anything else and that feeling is my driving force on my darkest days as corny as that sounds.

Do you have any favorite motto or quotes you like to use?

“You don’t get what you don’t ask for” – Sophia Amoruso

Can you describe a typical day like for yourself?

Wake up, work out, hydrate, meditate, gratitude journal, protein smoothie, emails, and then I work on my tasks for the day. Each day is different and I only work on things that are going to  make everything else easier for myself later. I also only work on things I can work on. I outsource “menial” tasks like social media scheduling and cold emailing to my team.

Which was the last movie you caught and was it any good?

The Hitman’s Bodyguard and it was pretty good! Not an award winner or anything, but it was cute, funny, and had a good message. I love Ryan Reynolds.

If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

How we treat it. Deforestation, ocean pollution, air pollution, lack of recycling, etc. Leonardo DiCaprio has a great message and has been doing great things to bring awareness to these issues and I stand behind him in that respect. I try to show my followers it’s cool to be cool to the environment in hopes it will inspire them to do the same.

What do you not get about guys?

Nothing? I feel like they’re pretty easy to read and simple minded… kidding about that last part. It’s the girls I have a problem understanding!

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Brittany. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Confidence and the ability to live life unapologetically.

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I’ve been an escort for five years. My personal view on sex work and escorting has changed since I started when I was 24 years old. At first, I saw it as a means to an end – a good living so I can work on “what I really wanted to do,” which, at 24, had no idea what it was.  As time went on, I started seeing the profession as more of a career – and a fulfilling one at that. I am the way my clients de-stress in a judgment free zone. I am a way for couples to bond and come closer together – a concept I think couples would only understand if they’ve have experience with an escort. I am a way for individuals to experience intimacy if they find themselves lacking comfort from someone.

While I think anyone can get into any career for the wrong reasons, I believe escorting to be a way where women can play amongst men that a glass ceiling might have prevented them to be around. And I get to hang around with those men in the best way – not to work for them, but to play with them.

Misconceptions About Escorting

The most common misconceptions are two: that there’s no way someone could have *chosen* this life and that the people that book us are “losers.”

Not only have I chosen this career and chose to stay in this career because of the opportunities it has afforded me and how much fulfillment I find in my day-to-day interactions with my clients, but every other escort I’ve ever met has chosen this life for the same reasons. It’s easy to think that someone else pushes us into this, as popular opinion would have you believe, but many of my contemporaries are intelligent, entrepreneurial ladies who can’t imagine themselves ever doing anything else! While all careers have their tough day, there’s a lot of fun and adventure that’s hard to find in any other profession – at least in the way I like to engage in fun and adventure!

The majority of my clients are men, and these men are the furthest from “lame” that could exist. My clients are professional, respectful men that are simply looking for a drama-free, easy way to let their hair down and relax.  I’m a professional adult entertainer with an uninhibited sense of adventure. For a professional man with the disposable income, what better way to let loose then with a sexy lady that knows exactly how to look, what to wear, how to carry herself, and that will look offer you a good time with no drama or strings attached?!

Advantages Of Engaging An Escort

The biggest advantage to booking an escort is for a drama-free, good time without the risks and uncertainty attached with engaging a complete stranger with unknown intentions at a bar or wherever you may find yourself.  My intention is for my client to have the time of their life, because it’s my profession to entertain. What can you say about the intentions of a random stranger? You know exactly what you’re getting when you book an escort, and there’s A TON of value in a sure thing!

Main Reason Main Engage Escorts

I’d say the main reason men engage an escort is to have fun and de-stress. It’s the experience and value that comes with having someone who they can say absolutely anything to so they feel heard, validated, and not judged.

Do’s & Don’ts To Follow

One important DO, is to treat the profession like any other profession and approach the escort with respect. Read her website and get to know her. Not only will he/she appreciate it, but you will be able to make a better decision.

A major DON’T is not mentioning anything illegal. You are paying for time and companionship

I wrote a book on this subject because I know this secret world with secret decorum is hard to navigate for a first timer. It’ s an easy, 10 minute read and can help give the new client confidence in taking the first step – and doing it right!

Lana Blanc – I’m Lana! A curvy model, escort and travel companion available in Philadelphia, NYC, DC, Houston, and San Francisco and for domestic and international travel. I have five years of experience and absolutely love meeting new people and making connections.

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Hi everyone! My name is Victoria and I am originally from Sacramento, Ca but I grew up living in different countries in Asia. So, in 6^th grade I moved to Beijing, then Hong Kong, then finally to Taipei where I graduated high school. I absolutely love to travel, and my perspective has totally changed. I am currently a marketing student at San Diego State!

What is your fashion style like?

Very comfortable and casual! I love wearing neutrals and basics, along with some fun shoes. I love white sneakers. My go to are t-shirt dresses, anything high waisted with a crop top, or a romper (because you only have to pick out one thing.)

On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

I would say 5. I defiantly go through phases, and I love to go out some nights, but others I love to stay in with a movie. I think it is fun to go out, but it is not the most productive. I am really trying to start of few of my own businesses, so currently I have a date with my laptop about every night!

Do you have any favorite motto or quotes you like to use?

I always try to live in the moment. And I think it’s important to always do the very best you can. I think if you always put 100% in then you won’t have any regrets. I know those sound super cheesy but they are true. Currently, there are so many ways to compare yourself to others on Instagram or whatever, but remember it is not real. Sometimes, I’ll delete social media for a few days and just focus on myself and the people in my life. Comparison is really the thief of joy!

Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now?

There are actually so many! I’m the clumsiest person ever – in high school the superlative I won was most accident prone.

Which was the last movie you caught and was it any good?

Actually, there is. I just came back from Taiwan, and on that horrible 12-hour plane ride I watched Molly’s game. I’m not really a movie person, but this movie was amazing. It was such a fast-paced incredible story. As soon as I got home I told my mom about it and she also became obsessed with it!

How do you usually like to spend your free time?

I love the gym. Currently I have been weight training, which is amazing because you can really see and feel results. I love yoga, meditation, as well as reading. Also, if I’m in San Diego the beach is the best. If I need to get work done, I love to go to a coffee shop and bring a laptop. Currently addicted to iced caramel lattes!

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

The Instagram Dm’s are the absolute worst. I really think the internet makes it so easy, because I know guys wouldn’t be this ridiculous in person. Here’s one that actually caught my attention!

Guy: Hey, you know who you look like?

Me: Who?

Guy: My future girlfriend.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Victoria. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

Sexy = Confidence. It’s as simple as that. As girls, we have to compare ourselves to unrealistic images the media portrays, which is really unfair. When it comes down to it, guys don’t expect us to look like that. Every girl has her insecurities, but you just have to learn to accept them. The gym has helped me in my confidence a ton! Even though I look pretty similar, I feel 10 times better which is everything.

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Hi everyone. My name is Aruna Misir and I am 21 years old. I’m originally from Florida but moved to Chicago for college where I study biology, chemistry, and gender and women’s studies.

What is the best compliment you have received?

I love when people compliment my eyes!

How do you spend your free time?

I love watching new shows on Netflix or cooking/baking new recipes!

Which fashion accessories are a must have in your collection?

My favorite fashion accessory would have to be my rings!

On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you?

A solid 10! I love trying new foods and restaurant in different places!

Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the time?

I always wanted to go skydiving – to embrace my fear of heights!

Which reality TV show are you most likely to win that suits your skills?

I would say Family Feud! Sometimes, when it comes on, my family and I play and go crazy!

What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

One of the funniest things that a guy has done was pretend to fall on the train and I got up to ask if he was okay and he said that he had “fallen” for me. Super lame but super cute!

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Aruna. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

“Sexy” to me is confidence and not cockiness. I think it’s attractive when people know their worth but don’t act like they are the most important person.

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A good date experience is when we both leave the date feeling uplifted and excited. It always helps set a good tone for the date when I can tell that the other person has put some time/thought into the outing. If it’s not a blind date and you have a bit of an idea about your partners interests (from social media or mutual friends), you can really impress them by playing into that! It doesn’t have to meet any certain stipulations or criteria per say, as long as we both leave with smiles on our faces wanting to reconnect again.

First Date Faves

Going out for a meal is always a traditional nice way to get to know someone through conversation. But a good meal paired with a shared experience like going to an event, a class, or a museum, concert, hike, anything really — gives you something to talk about over dinner and an introductory way to explore likes, dislikes and each other’s interests.

One of my favorite dates in San Francisco started as a walk through Golden Gate Park to a free event, Opera in the Park. We sat around on a picnic blanket and enjoyed the music for a bit (I think this gave us both time to get comfortable around each other and let the first date jitters subside), then walked over into a nice neighborhood nearby for a drink, then eventually to dinner and dessert.

It ended up being a long date that was only expected to be the meet and greet and walk around the park but ended up being an all day affair because we were enjoying each others’ company.

Preparing For The First Date

Well I personally have a pre-date ritual to prepare for a date that involves a long shower and bath with a glass of wine, followed by body oil, face mask, and general grooming and primping. I follow this up with a meditation session so I feel relaxed and centered before meeting. On the date itself, I try to be myself for the most part, perhaps a little reserved in some areas until I get a good feel for the other person and our compatibility, but generally try to be as normal and like me as possible. How else will you know you’re a good fit if you aren’t being yourself?

Expectations Of My Date

I am generally not a high maintenance girl so all I expect from a date is courtesy, kindness, and respect. Also, I do think it’s appropriate for the man to at least ASK to pay the bill at the end of the night.

Tips To Remove The Nerves

Don’t be nervous! But of course that is easier said than done so I would say just take a few deep breaths, don’t be afraid to be yourself or talk about things that truly interest you (you’re probably more interesting than you let yourself believe) and in the event nerves are taking over anyway – don’t drink too much! I’ve seen this happen more than once and trust me, you’d rather be a bit nervous in the beginning and let that round out as the date goes on, than add fuel to the fire and end up being a hot mess!

Jeniveve Delacroix – I am a 28 year old sensual blonde sweetheart living in San Francisco. I just graduated with my undergrad degree in the social sciences (I love to study all things people) and am enjoying my time off before I head back to grad school. In my free time I love to do yoga, hike, pet all the animals and travel and love to share these interests with like minded people.

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We all know that snoring is aggravating and can sometimes have a negative impact on your sex life. You might also feel helpless or like you’re stuck. Don’t call it quits yet, though, because there are some things you can try in order to stop the snoring and get your sex life back on track.

Anti-Snoring Devices

The first thing you could try are various anti-snoring devices. There are so many devices on the market and they aren’t all made the same. Even if it’s the same type of product, you might have better chance with one over the other. The two most common devices are anti-snore pillows and mouthpieces. While there are the basic products, there are also some that have more advanced features. For instance, there are pillows that have adjustable height and hardness and there are mouthpieces that mimic your exact bite. These types are better than one size fits all because they are customized to you.

Stay Away from Alcohol Before Bed

Another great tip is to stay away from alcohol before bed. The main reason is because alcohol will relax the muscles and your throat wall will be too relaxed and loose. This means that there’s more chance of vibrations, which cause snoring. If you want to have some kind of alcohol, try to stop drinking a few hours before you lay down. This will help ensure that the relaxation of your throat won’t be as bad and you’ll have less chance of snoring.

Lose Excess Weight

You or your spouse could also try losing any excess weight. When you are overweight, the neck muscles can become bulky and large. This can lead to snoring because everything is all squished up and there isn’t enough room for the air to get through the way it needs to. Often times, when you lose some weight, the muscles in your neck will slim down and help ensure that everything isn’t pushed together. This will make it so the air can easily pass through and cause less vibrations. This doesn’t always work because some people just have larger throats, but it’s definitely worth a try!

Keep the Bedroom Moist

When you sleep in a room that’s dry, your mouth and nasal passages will dry out. When these areas are dry, you have a higher chance of snoring. This can be combated by leaving a window open or putting a dehumidifier in your room. Both of these will give enough moisture to stop you from drying out, but not so much that you’re constantly wet.

Sleep On the Side

Another thing you or your significant other can do is try sleeping on the side. This is one of the best ways to stop snoring. When you lay on your back, your tongue can fall backwards and prevent that air from moving easily. If you’ve tried sleeping on your side but find that you always end up on your back, there are a few things you can try. For starters, try putting a pillow behind you so you don’t roll. You can also add one in front of you so you stay in the same position.

Try Using Mint Based Essential Oils

The final thing you can try is mint based essential oils. Since there are several mint based oils, you have the chance to try them all. Two of the most common ones are peppermint and wintergreen. All you have to do is put it into a diffuser or mister and let it run all night. The mint will help keep your passages clear and let the air easily pass through. If you don’t have essential oils, you can try and find mint products, like vapor rub, and go to sleep with it under your nose. This will have the same effect as letting the mister or diffuser run all night.

As you can see, there are a few things you can try to save your sex life. You don’t have anything to lose and you might find something that will stop the snoring forever! Have you tried any of these? If so, tell us about it in the comments!

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