I started masturbating as a young teen, so it’s always something I’ve been comfortable with. I feel it’s important to know adn be comfortable with your body. I’m an exhibitionist and love to masturbate for my partner, in front of a crowd at a sex club or for the camera. I’m a cam model on MyFreeCams and I also make my own amateur porn on Manyvids.
What Turns Me On
My wife and I are swingers, so playing with other couples is a huge turn on. So is public sex in sex clubs. I’m very submissive, and love dirty talk and rough sex. I’m most turned on by confident partners who can take the lead. Dressing up in sexy lingerie is also a huge turn on and helps me set the mood
Why Masturbation DP With Dildo & Butt Plug Is Amazing
It’s an incredible feeling of fullness that can’t be duplicated. With double penetration, you can feel the toys rubbing against each other and the friction between them is thrilling. It is a much more intense, full body orgasm. The first time I tried DP was actually during a threesome with a guy and a girl with a strap on. It was some of the most intense sex of my life. But I highly recommend trying DP solo while masturbating as you are in complete control then and you know your body and limits best.”
Preparation Before Masturbation
I like to start with a hot bath, a blunt and a glass of wine to help me fully relax and get in the mood. But it’s important NOT to get completely intoxicated. You don’t want to dull your body’s response to pain. I recommend using Sliquid Lube or Bad Dragon Clear Cum Lube. Avoid any lube that warms up or numbs you. You can do an enema beforehand if you prefer.
Favorite Solo DP Techniques
I start off using a vibrator on my clit while fingering my ass. Take your time! Use lots of lube! I like to use a butt plug for my anal toy during DP because it’s hands free once I put it in.
Favorite DP Position
Definitely doggy style, but try different positions to find what works for you. Sometimes I like to start by lying on my side.
Tips For Beginners
If you like anal, you will probably love DP. Use baby steps and smaller toys, work your way up. Don’t skimp on the lube or rush it. Take your time and enjoy the ride!”
Callisto Morgan – Callisto Morgan is a 31 year old free spirited Psychology student, swinger, camgirl and panty seller. You can find her on Twitter, Manyvids, MyFreeCams or her VIP SnapChat.
Hey everyone, I am Stephanie van Burk, originally from Switzerland but living in LA. I am a model for more than 30 years and an activist through a movement named #freeyourfear . I am here to help people feeling more self-confident with themselves and help them to deal with some difficult aspects they can go through.
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Photo: @ambocreative Styling: @jakimac
Which is your proudest achievement so far?
I got scouted when I was on vacation at the age of 13. My first real job was a billboard for Mac Donald’s. However at the age of 6, I got casted for the European commercial of Milka chocolate. Then, I moved overseas and signed with Ford Models in NYC. I started traveling and working as a model all over the world.
What is the best compliment you have received?
The best compliment I received is that I am inspiring.
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How do you motivate yourself?
My fans motivate me mainly. Well fans is not the right term, they are my friends. They are full of talent, kindness and beauty. Each day when I connect on social media, I have the most amazing messages awaiting for me. It cheers me up and in a second they already make my day.
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Photo: @ambocreative for @herbeautymag MUA: @sergiopaez_mua Hair: @hairbykrystalmichelle
Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the time?
Discover the entire world. I have travelled in many countries but I haven’t visited it all.
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If you could change one thing of the world, what will it be?
I would like to free people from their fears in order for them to live their life to the fullest as it should be. Fear brings up anxiety, insecurities, and many more negative aspects in the life of people.
Would you rather have the ability to fly or invisibility?
I would love to fly as I love to travel.
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Photo: @shoots_with_jessica for @cakemagazine
What do you not get about the opposite sex?
I don’t get why the opposite sex has more than we do. Women haven’t yet the same rights as men in many ways. After all those years, women aren’t equal yet.
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Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Stephanie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
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Photo: @chekmatephoto
Was modeling something you’ve always wanted to do since you were a child?
No, not really. Except a huge warning sign was constantly posing in front of the mirror and pulling faces when I was on my own! I was always the first to volunteer for a photo – and I loved acting and playing characters. Modelling and expressing myself was bound to follow! I looked up to renaissance/ Pre-Raphaelite artworks and always wanted to replicate the images – even though I was cripplingly shy of my naked body.
Which genre(s) are you favorite to model?
The actress in me wants to do everything! But I love intimate portraits, art nude, renaissance goddess/ Pre-Raphaelite art works. Black and white edgy nudes with a ton of attitude and power!
Do you have any guilty pleasures when it comes to food?
I am *usually* always trying to live a healthy plant based lifestyle – but since living in Canada I absolutely love poutine!! Oh my gosh. Those cheese curds! It reminds me of having a cheeky chips ‘n’ cheese at home in England. Ultimate comfort food.
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Which is one memorable photoshoot experience you can share with us?
I have so many ! I love traveling/ adventuring to exciting locations! One I’ll never forget was posing in the snow in Canada – and we believe a spider liked my boot for warmth and I received multiple spider bites – resulting in a visit to hospital a few days later because I couldn’t walk! Scary stuff.
Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the time?
I really want to try glass blowing! Random I know.
If you could have a super power, what will it be?
Definitely invisibility!! The suspicious part of myself would love to see what goes on behind closed doors in high powered/ secured places!
What is the lamest or funniest attempt a guy has tried to know you?
Unfortunately I don’t have too many ‘lame’ experiences! They range more on the ‘scary stalker’ or obsessive romantic who wants to marry me after a few dates. I find ‘lame’ and ‘funny’ pick ups endearing and attractive! It shows some level of authenticity.
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Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Larissa. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Authentic, real and strong despite insecurities. Be your genuine self.
Everybody knows that Russian girls are incredibly beautiful, and that’s why their Instagram accounts gain more and more subscribers from all over the world, and their photos get thousands of likes. We’ve put together a list of the most famous Russian Instagram divas, whose beauty brought them fame.
Svetlana Bilyalova @bilyalova_sveta (over 2.3 million subscribers)
Sveta is one of the most popular Russian girls on Instagram. She would never be able to become a model if not for social media. Soon after she began posting her pics on Instagram, dozens of photographers and model agencies reached out to her, offering contracts and free photo shoots. Sveta isn’t tall, so she never thought she would be professionally engaged in the modeling business, but social networks can do miracles!
Olga Abramovich @oabramovich (over 1.4 million subscribers)
The next spot on our list of hot Instagram girls goes to Olya Abramovich. She’s the standard of Russian beauty. This sophisticated blue-eyed blonde comes from the city of Perm in central Russia. Like our previous beauty, she conquered over a million people with her pretty face.
Galina Mirgaeva @mirgaeva_galinka (over 1.5 million subscribers)
Galina Mirgaeva is another beauty from Perm. The girl had to make a lot of efforts to promote her account, but in the end, she managed to turn people’s attention to her. Now she’s one of the most successful Instagram models in Russia.
Anna Rai @anyuta_rai (over 1.1 million subscribers)
This cutie comes from Yekaterinburg. Anna has been in modeling business since 18. Anna is actively engaged in sports and sticks to a special diet, keeping herself in shape. Some fans claim that Anna’s beauty isn’t as natural as it looks and that the girl had a few plastic surgeries. But anyway, she achieved great success, and she’s not going to stop.
Alexandra Markina @markina (over 905 thousand subscribers)
This chick’s account is rapidly gaining popularity and can soon compete with many popular blogs. Sasha’s Instagram page is pretty old, but t just began attracting fans’ attention. The girl’s beauty isn’t just nature’s gift – it’s a result of hard work.
Olesya has always been a positive and open girl, so she didn’t have to put much effort to achieve success. Right now she has more than 700 thousand devoted subscribers, and their number will keep growing.
Some accuse Nita of numerous plastic surgeries and excessive abuse of Photoshop, but no matter how negative some comments under her photos get sometimes, the fact remains – the girl is very popular.
This Russian model stands out from other girls with her magnificent forms. As a child, Nastya had a lot of complexes because of her unusual appearance, but with age, she reconsidered her views.
Victoria Odintsova @viki_odintcova (over 661 thousand subscribers)
Victoria loves posting photos in underwear, and that’s why her fans on Instagram love her so much. She’s also known for numerous affairs with rich and influential men, but what’s so surprising about it? Such a woman can’t avoid men’s attention.
Yana Yatskovskaya @youryani (over 780 thousand subscribers)
And the last spot on our list goes to stunningly beautiful Yana Yatskovskaya. Yana is a well-known model that has gained popularity thanks to Instagram. She has a beauty blog where she shares secrets of her make-up, style, and gorgeous forms with her subscribers and talks about sports and nutrition.
I think that sex is an extremely important part of nature as a whole, but it is incredibly overrated in society which leads to some kind of cult following. I think it’s a beautiful thing when two or more people decide to get freaky as long as everything is consensual and nobody’s getting hurt (unless they want to), but we must respect those who want nothing to do with any of that. It’s also extremely important not to take yourself too seriously as a “sexual being” because that’s when things stop being fun!
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Being Experimental During Sex
I’m extremely experimental with significant others. If there’s ever something they want to try with me, we discuss it and once a mutual understanding is met, we try it out.
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Uncommon Sexual Fantasies
Recently, I found out about balloon fetishes and I have plans to make videos with that kind of fetish genre. One I can’t remove from my brain is scat; it’s literally a fetish surrounding feces. I will never do anything related to the scat fetish.
Fantasies specifically, consensual non-consent seems to be a common one among people that has a huge stigma about it. I have to agree that it’s very taboo, but I have experimented with it.
My Favorite Fantasy
Being used and abused, like a fucktoy while I’m practically black out drunk. I love drunk sex.
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How To Explore Your Fantasies
If you don’t feel comfortable experimenting with someone you know or just anyone, I would suggest saving up some cash and going to a sex worker. That will be a perfectly professional environment in which you can explain exactly what you want done without feeling any unnecessary shame!
Lola – My name is Dolores, but you can call me Lola; I’m 19. I’m a camgirl and I sell explicit content whilst studying Fine Arts at Uni.
Whats good everyone! I’m KJ, a so-cal born and raised alternative model and photographer. I represent the Palm Springs desert area as home, but split my time between LA and NYC. I pride myself on being a strong passionate force but staying sweet and humble at the same time. I’m the girl you may or may not have seen with the “faith” tattoo above her eyebrow.
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What inspired you to be a model?
I was a graphic design major at an LA art school. My classmates were always using me for their projects, I loved it. Before the “internet”, I used Model Mayhem to book photoshoots and it just kinda went on from there. I don’t regret any part of it.
How many tattoos do you have and is there a story behind one of them?
A lot of mine are memories, a time in place, a person. My most recent is a dandelion I tattooed myself. A symbol of simple blessings from the Universe to give you that little extra reassurance.
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Where can we catch you partying on weekends?
LA lounges, or get dressed up to grab some dinner with girlfriends. Our go to is Beauty and Essex, Sugarfish, Catch, and Warwick. I don’t mind the occasional dive bar in Long Beach or Hollywood.
Is there a food or drink you can’t live without?
I LOVE coffee, I can’t function until I have my first cup… or two. As for food, I’m big on cooking, Like it’s a hobby of mine now. Veggies and olive oil are essential!
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How will you describe your fashion style?
I just take elements from everything I’m into then just mix it all up. I’ll throw a urban or street spin on my girly feminine kits.
Would you rather have the ability to mind read or teleport?
Teleport, I could be where I want to be instantly? I think yes! I have good intuition so mind reading I’m cool on.
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What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?
Getting my number off someone else, or hitting my email off Instagram for a date. I appreciate the courage, but totally falls under the creepy side of things.
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Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Karlee. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Confidence! Being sure of yourself, your body and your mind.
Thank you so much. My name is Kiana and my Instagram handle is @kianas.gram. I currently live in Las Vegas. I love to travel and go to music festivals, especially EDM music festivals, or Raves.
Which is the best compliment you have received?
When someone says that they appreciate me for being there for them. I am very loyal to my friends and family and I think that’s my best trait.
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How is a typical day like for yourself?
I usually go to bed when people are starting their day actually. Lol. I work the nightshift in the casino so usually I’ll go to bed around 5-7am after I get home and walk my dog, and then I’ll wake up around 12noon-1 pm and go to the gym, run some errands and catch up on whatever I need to do and then 6pm I usually start getting ready for work.
On my weekends I like to just relax and hang out with friends and work on planning my next trip/rave – sometimes I plan my outfits for my events months in advance.
Do you have any favorite quotes you like to use?
I always tell everyone, “You only live once” and also, “Work hard, play harder”
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Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the time?
Travel in Europe. I am planning on doing that next summer and hit Tomorrowland.
Which flavor best describes you?
I would say I’m sweet and spicy. I am sweet but defiantly not a pushover and a little spicy to make it more interesting. You never know what I will say/do next.
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If you could collaborate with anyone past or present, who will it be?
Photography wise I would love to work with @prcivl. But I’m really into Asian religion and culture and I would love to spend a day with the Dalai Lama and gain some knowledge and wisdom from him and learn more about life and it’s journey that we all go through.
What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?
The lamest attempt is when guys just go up to every single female and just try to see if they can get one girl to say yes to them. It doesn’t make any girl feel special. I’ve also had my fair share of guys making references about liking Asian girls. The best is just to say hi and be genuine.
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Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Kiana. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Sexy is when someone is self confident and owns everything that they do. They aren’t afraid to take risks. They aren’t afraid to be silly. They aren’t afraid to be themselves and worry about what other people think of them. That’s when sexy shines through.
Danni awoke at 7:30 am as she did every weekday morning. She checked her phone and said, “Oh, I forgot I had that doctors appointment at 1:00 pm. Now I need to change my entire afternoon around. Oye!” Danni got her naked, curvy body out of bed and headed to the shower. Soaping herself up, starting at her neck and moving down to her large D cup breasts, she massaged soap all over them and worked down towards and around her stomach, and between her thick thighs before heading down her legs. The curves of her body always ample luscious and voluptuous. Danni loved her curves and as she began to rinse off her hands, began to massage her breasts . Playing quicking with her nipple rings, her hands began to move back down over her stomach then down towards her bare bush. Her fingers of one hand began to massage her clit, the other moved back up towards her breasts. With slow gentle circles she brought herself to orgasm.
Her orgasm felt good but she still wasn’t feeling satisfied. Since her breakup with Rob, Danni felt empty and not as vibrant and sexy as she once did. She was having more than a dry spell. It had been almost two months since she had felt the touch of a man. Danni began dressing herself, picking a casual pencil skirt that hugged her curves, and always made her long legs look great. She paired it with a white button down top. Her breasts were always ample through her top. She finished her makeup and hair, headed to her car and drove to the office. As an office receptionist, she was always proper and well spoken. She worked away answering calls and taking messages for her boss until the noon hour arose.
At noon she left her job and headed in the busy Los Angeles traffic to her doctor’s office. “God I hope this appointment is quick. I hate spending so much time just for a checkup. I always spend more time waiting then being seen,” she thought to herself. Once inside the office, she was told by the reception person that her regular doctor — Dr. Samantha — was running very behind with her patient schedule. The receptionist asked if Danni would like to see the new doctor who joined the practice. Danni looked at the receptionist and said, “I will see whoever is available the fastest.” After waiting 30 minutes, Danni was finally called into the office. The nurse asked her to undress into the paper robe and was told the doctor would arrive shortly to start the exam.
Danni stripped down and covered her luscious curves with the paper robe. She sat on the table and waited. A few minutes later, there was a knock on the door, and this tall slightly older gentleman appeared. He introduced himself as Dr. Vince Taylor. Danni shook his hand and began answering his medical questions. Dr. Taylor approached Danni and asked her to lay down so her could began his exam. Eager to leave the office, Danni quickly laid down on the table. Dr. Taylor began to listen to her heart and lungs through his stethoscope. The stethoscope was cold and his touch was firm yet gentle. As he moved the stethoscope around, Danni inhaled and exhaled as requested. His firm and gentle hands moved around her neck as he continued his exam.
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Danni moved her neck as he requested, enjoying his hands upon her neck. She found herself getting slightly aroused by his touch, though he continued to remain professional. His hands moved from her neck to her stomach. Her large breasts held down still in her bra. As he touched her stomach pushing around gently she began to feel more aroused and wish his hands would wander down her stomach. Her mind became puzzled by why she was suddenly aroused. It had been two months since she had felt the touch of a man but it made little sense to her why it was happening suddenly during the strangest time. Dr. Taylor remained focused on the exam, talking in his deep firm voice about medical mobo jumbo. Danni found herself in a glaze and her panties were suddenly getting wet from his touch. He removed his hands from her body and walked over and sat down making notes on her medical chart. Danni still glazed out continued to lay there.
“Ms. Dawson,” Dr Taylor said.
Danni didn’t reply. “Ms. Dawson,” he said again. “Are you okay?”
She quickly sat up and tried to pull herself together. “Yes,” she replied. “What’s next?”
He handed her a lab slip and said he wanted to have some routine labs done but everything so far looked good.
She took the lab slip from his hand, and placed it down and suddenly grabbed his hand and placed it under the paper robe on her D cup breasts, which were still covered by her bra. Dr. Taylor had a very surprised look suddenly on his face. Danni moved her covered breast more towards his hand wanting to feel his gentle yet firm touch. As his hands touched her breast, he quickly pulled away. “Ms. Dawson,” he said. “I can’t,” and put his head down.
“Is there anything else you need my help with?”
Danni removed her paper robe showing off her sexy curves still hidden by her bra and panties. Dr. Taylor lifted his head up, still surprised by Danni’s advances on him. Looking at her curves, he responded, “You’re a beautiful girl, but I just can’t. I could get in a lot of trouble.”
Danni got off the table and walked towards Dr. Taylor, unclasping her bra. Her bra quickly fell to the floor, letting her D cup breasts hang down. She placed her hand upon his and said, “But I want you too,” again grabbing his hand and placing them on her large breasts.
Her panties began to become wet as he gave to caressing her breasts, as she requested. She then took his hand and moved it down her stomach. Her pussy was so wet from his firm yet gentle touch. Dr. Taylor again suddenly stopped. “Ms Dawson, We shouldn’t be doing this.”
She leaned over and whispered in his ear. “Please, doctor?”
She slowly moved his hand down her stomach and into her wet panties. His khaki pants began to bulge as Danni moved his hand between her wet pussy lips. She gently moaned as his fingers massaged her wet pussy. Her hand reached down towards the bulge in his pants and she began rubbing it through his pants. Dr. Taylor quietly moaned as Danni’s hand rubbed him up and down. His fingers slowly moved in and out of her wet pussy. Danni enjoyed in excess rubbing his bulge more through his pants. She removed her hand from his bulge and pulled her wet panties down. Laying back on the table she gave Dr. Taylor an inviting view of her sweet wet pussy that desperately wanted his cock.
Dr Taylor walked towards her and said, “Ms. Dawson, is there something you want me from me?”
She blurted out, “Your cock. Dr. Taylor please fuck me.”
Dr Taylor began to hesitate again. “Please!” Danni begged.
Dr Taylor reached for his belt, unbuckled it, and then undid his pants. He moved towards Danni and pulled down his khaki pants. His briefs were bulging from his extremely hard cock. “Please, Dr. Please,” Danni begged again.
Dr Taylor pulled down his briefs and slid his cock between Danni’s wet pussy lips, pushing himself deeply as she moaned.
He kept sliding himself in and out of her pussy slow before picking up the pace. Danni moaned in ecstasy as he pounded in and out of her pussy. His thumb found her clit and he rubbed and pounded her pussy until her back began to arch and she had an orgasm on his cock. Still raging hard in her wet pussy, Dr. Taylor began fucking Danni harder. His looked up towards the ceiling as he got close to climax. He removed his cock from Danni’s dripping wet pussy and began stroking his cock on her pussy, shooting his cum load all over her bare bush. “Mmmm,” Danni said, moving her hand on to her pussy covered with cum, then moving it into her mouth so she could taste Dr. Taylor’s warm cum.
After tasting him, she sat up. “Thank you,” the doctor said.
She replied, “I’m not sure what came over me. “
“No, thank you,” he said. “It has been awhile.”
“For me too,” she replied. Maybe we could do it again?” she asked. “I could have you over to my place.”
He replied, “Yes. lets keep in touch.”
Dr. Taylor pulled himself back together and started to exit the room. “Thank you, Ms. Dawson. It’s been more than a pleasure,” he said.
Danni agreed he was more than a pleasure in many ways.
Danni Dawson – Danni Dawson is a BBW adult film actress and cam model. While she began her career solely on cam sites, she decided to embark on a career in adult film, and has performed in a number of hard-core scenes. Danni also enjoys writing erotica, and has previously written erotic short stories under a different pen name. She lives in Los Angeles, and enjoys living a polyamorous lifestyle with her partners.
I’m from Russia, Saint-Petersburg. Now, I am living in Mexico.
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Do you have any hobbies or interests?
I have some activities which became part of my life, I can’t tell that it’s hobbies, because it’s part of me. I’m a model, photographer, artist, musician, erotic massage master…I like to do everything that gives me inspiration.
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What is a typical day like for you?
I wake up like at 9am, after making me beautiful, I go to take a fresh juice in the same place every morning and have breakfast. My favourite part of the day are mornings, and I like to enjoy it by walking, after painting before evenings, and listening to good music. Then have some meetings, dinner and sleep..not later than 12.
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Is there a food or drink you can’t live without?
I don’t think so..I adapt easy to everything.
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Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now?
Mmm, I was in porn 4 years ago and it was a lot of embarrassing situations but I won all of them.
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If you had the opportunity to learn anything in this world, what will it be?
I will learn who really I am, and discover how to use all the potential of this.
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Which is the sexiest item in your wardrobe?
I’m not a fan of clothes, I find much more sexiness in a naked body, but in this days we are slaves of clothes and if you take out them, you are already an exhibitionist crazy person or bitch or any of those social definitions.
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What do you find most attractive about the opposite sex?
Respect for others, even ill-wishers. Independence. Inner strength. Wisdom
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Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Yuliana. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Sexuality is energy. it comes from within. The more harmonious the person, the more we want to contact him.
So you’ve heard all about Internet matchmaking from some of your friends, it’s something you’ve long been curious in, and now you’ve selected what would be the best dating site in terms of the type of single you could be put in touch with? Before you launch into joining the millions of users who have already signed up to one of these platforms, it would be worth ensuring you are familiar with the basic rules. Your experience of online dating will be vastly improved if you follow these; and here are the top five.
Honesty is the best policy
While it’s one thing to make a good first impression, it’s something entirely different to make a false one. It might be tempting to fabricate a few background issues to make your profile sound more interesting, but always bear in mind the ultimate aim of online dating is for you to actually meet face-to-face. So in order to eradicate the possibility of disappointment, make sure you always tell the truth during your online exchanges. There is no point in lying as this will only lead to mistrust when the truth is finally uncovered.
Don’t be obvious; try thinking outside the box
When it comes to describing yourself to potential partners, there is a whole raft of subjects you could dwell on. Try not to state the obvious ones, such as how much you love music, or spending time with your friends, or traveling to exotic holiday locations. These are cliches that will have been parroted in any number of profiles. Remember, random site visitors have a low attention threshold, so it’s important to make an instant impression. Your description should focus on exciting and unusual hobbies.
Keep those skeletons under lock and key
Everyone has baggage; this is an aspect of human nature. But there is no point in jumping straight into the deep-end and admitting you have only just come out of rehab for an alcohol addiction, or have been through court proceedings over child custody, or have even suffered from a nervous breakdown in the recent past. Obviously, none of these issues should be hidden away indefinitely as they form an integral part of your overall personality. But initial introductions are all about getting to know each other and building a sense of chemistry over time. As you really get to know someone well, any of these stories will emerge in due course, strengthening your bond.
Always engage with your suitors
There is no point in treating the online environment as you would a similar situation in the off-line world. It is quite common to feel the urge to be stand-offish or to ‘play it cool’ when it comes to getting to know someone. Perhaps you might be tempted to delay that follow-on phone call after a first date, just to make sure your prospective partner gets the message they can’t take you for granted. But forget all that when it comes to online dating. This is all about immediate engagement, where you don’t have the luxury of mind games. If you play hard to get on a dating site, potential suitors will simply move on to the next profile.
Find the balance between modesty and showing off
The early stages of getting to know someone online can be quite a tentative experience. Ideally, you should aim to achieve a balance between modesty and blowing your own trumpet! By all means, try and demonstrate you have a spark about you, but not at the extent of coming across as someone who simply brags about themselves.
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Thank you so much for featuring me! So my name is Minori Kawachi and I am a Japanese-American born in Honolulu, Hawaii. I currently live in New York, studying Advertising and Marketing Communications at the Fashion Institute of Technology.
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How will you describe your fashion style?
Honestly, I have so many different styles that I would just say that my style basically depends on my mood. One day I would feel sporty/street style/tomboy and another day I would feel girly. But most days I dress up casual and basic such as a cropped tank top and high waisted jeans with some boots or sneakers.
Which beauty products are a must have in your collection?
One of my favorites is the Maybelline Stiletto Liquid Eyeliner! In my opinion, it’s the easiest eyeliner to get a winged liner. Plus, the color is the blackest black which I love!
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Do you have any guilty pleasures for food?
OMG…yes! I have so many but my ultimate favorite is the Flamin’ Hot Cheetos.
Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now?
Oh for sure. One time I was walking with my mom and I thought one girl waved at me (a stranger) and so I waved back thinking that she knew me from somewhere I knew her and ends up she was waving at the person behind me! They were laughing and I felt so embarrassed!
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If you had the opportunity to learn anything in this world, what will it be?
I would love to learn about different cultures all over the world! I would actually travel to different countries and meet up with the locals to learn their culture and lifestyle. That would be amazing!
Which reality TV show best suits your skills to win it?
One of my favorite reality TV show would be Keeping Up With The Kardashians. I know, don’t hate me but I just love how everyone just sticks together, solve problems and be loyal and honest to each other. I think it’s one of the best things to do to get along with people whether friends, strangers or business.
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What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?
One guy asked me to become his personal ‘pet’ and that he would pay me to live abroad with him because he was in the military. It was more creepy than funny or lame. But most guys would just send me puns or jokes haha.
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Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Minori. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Sexy is when one is fully confident about him or herself and they do not care what others think of them. Wear what you want, do your makeup however you want and feel confident!
I’ve been working behind-the-scenes in the adult industry for the past 6 years. When looking to advance in my career, I decided it was time to make the jump to being a performer. Having been on set for so long, I’ve been lucky enough to work with directors that support me and even will recommend me as a performer to other companies. I’ve also had an abundance of support in my new endeavor from my amazing wife who also works in the industry in marketing.
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How A Typical Shooting Process Goes
Of course, prior to any scene, you must be tested and your clear test needs to be posted into the PASS system. When you arrive to set, you fill out your legal documentation for the records. Performers will show each other our clear tests to be sure everyone feels comfortable.
Beyond that it varies based on what the particular company needs as far as a scene. I’ve mostly shot with gonzo companies, which are very minimal in the direction. There is a basic idea and it leads to sex. Typically a full movie will consist of four scenes with varying partners per scene.
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After a blowbang for Aziani Studios with Eden Sin (@EdenxSin)
Misconceptions About Adult Performers
A lot of people just assume it’s an all-out orgy between performers at all times. This is definitely not the case. Many performers have families and regular lives outside of the industry. It is a job, just a little more fun than the typical. Many people have also asked if the performers are being forced into this line of work. I can say that on all of the sets I have ever been on, consent is the number one rule. We always want all performers to feel completely comfortable at all times.
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After a shoot with Lily Lane (LilyLaneXXX)
Challenges Faced When Performing
I feel like there is nothing to really complain about as a performer. That being said, one of the biggest challenges I have noticed since the beginning is an abundance of downtime on set. So you need to stay in the right mindset and you need to feel comfortable so you can perform when the pressure is on and multiple people are watching you.
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Working as a PA on set for Maestro Claudio and Bam Visions
Differences In Sex Between On & Off Cam
Obviously, on camera, you have people watching you in addition to the camera. There’s also the consideration of opening for the camera so they can see the action. It’s less intimate than sex off camera for sure. There is a lot more of a mental game with sex on camera. You’re not just having sex for yourself, so for me at least it’s a totally different type of connection.
Indiana Bones – Formerly a touring musician, when I arrived and the tour ended in LA I decided to stay. My friend needed an assistant to help with Pa work on an adult set. After six years as an assistant, I decided it was my turn to get in on the action.
Hello! Thank you for featuring me! I was born and raised in sunny Los Angeles, CA. I graduated from the University of San Francisco and lived there for three years. One of my major hobbies includes traveling to various countries and practicing Bikram yoga.
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What is your proudest achievement so far?
My proudest achievement so far has to be sticking to my nutritional regime for the past five years. It has changed my life for the better and I feel great.
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Which is the best compliment you have received?
The best compliment I have ever received from anyone was, “You are a very funny and charismatic person with a good heart.”
Do you have a very strict fitness regime?
I wouldn’t consider my regime VERY strict, but I do go to the gym at least three times a week and take hot yoga classes during the weekends. I find my regime to be the ultimate stress reliever and I never regret a workout.
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Is there a food or drink you can’t live without?
One drink I can’t live without (besides water) would be ICED COFFEE with a splash of half and half and no sweetener. As for food, I’m Californian so obviously AVOCADO TOAST and SUSHI.
Are you more of a morning person or night owl?
Definitely more of a morning person (I get more done :D).
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If you could have a superpower, which will it be?
The ability to teleport! I would save a bundle on airline tickets!
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What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?
I received a call from a guy who had gotten my number from a mutual friend. He left a voicemail indicating the reason why he was calling. He basically wanted to get to know me and thought I was interesting. He then ends his message with, “I’m also really rich now and have LOADS of money. I don’t need to work a day in my life anymore. I can buy you anything you want.”
A person who needs to indicate their worth by flaunting their wealth is a total deal breaker for me.
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Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jazmin. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
I would define sexy as someone who is confident, humble, adventurous and intellectual.
So you’ve heard all about Internet matchmaking from some of your friends, it’s something you’ve long been curious in, and now you’ve selected what would be the best dating site in terms of the type of single you could be put in touch with? Before you launch into joining the millions of users who have already signed up to one of these platforms, it would be worth ensuring you are familiar with the basic rules. Your experience of online dating will be vastly improved if you follow these; and here are the top five.
Honesty is the best policy
While it’s one thing to make a good first impression, it’s something entirely different to make a false one. It might be tempting to fabricate a few background issues to make your profile sound more interesting, but always bear in mind the ultimate aim of online dating is for you to actually meet face-to-face. So in order to eradicate the possibility of disappointment, make sure you always tell the truth during your online exchanges. There is no point in lying as this will only lead to mistrust when the truth is finally uncovered.
Don’t be obvious; try thinking outside the box
When it comes to describing yourself to potential partners, there is a whole raft of subjects you could dwell on. Try not to state the obvious ones, such as how much you love music, or spending time with your friends, or traveling to exotic holiday locations. These are cliches that will have been parroted in any number of profiles. Remember, random site visitors have a low attention threshold, so it’s important to make an instant impression. Your description should focus on exciting and unusual hobbies.
Keep those skeletons under lock and key
Everyone has baggage; this is an aspect of human nature. But there is no point in jumping straight into the deep-end and admitting you have only just come out of rehab for an alcohol addiction, or have been through court proceedings over child custody, or have even suffered from a nervous breakdown in the recent past. Obviously, none of these issues should be hidden away indefinitely as they form an integral part of your overall personality. But initial introductions are all about getting to know each other and building a sense of chemistry over time. As you really get to know someone well, any of these stories will emerge in due course, strengthening your bond.
Always engage with your suitors
There is no point in treating the online environment as you would a similar situation in the off-line world. It is quite common to feel the urge to be stand-offish or to ‘play it cool’ when it comes to getting to know someone. Perhaps you might be tempted to delay that follow-on phone call after a first date, just to make sure your prospective partner gets the message they can’t take you for granted. But forget all that when it comes to online dating. This is all about immediate engagement, where you don’t have the luxury of mind games. If you play hard to get on a dating site, potential suitors will simply move on to the next profile.
Find the balance between modesty and showing off
The early stages of getting to know someone online can be quite a tentative experience. Ideally, you should aim to achieve a balance between modesty and blowing your own trumpet! By all means, try and demonstrate you have a spark about you, but not at the extent of coming across as someone who simply brags about themselves.
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Hello! Thank you for having me. Well I am Mara Smith, twenty one years old and I am a mixed Filipina-Black American born in Los Angeles, California but raised here in the Philippines since I was about three years old. I am currently working as a fashion model and I also am starting out to share my experiences through vlogging.
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Which is the best compliment you have received?
I always appreciate when I get compliments of how good and professional I am to work with. I enjoy my job as a model and even though it may look easy, it is a tough job and it requires discipline and hard work excel to at it.
What is your beauty regime like to looking so fabulous?
I’ve learned to invest in good and as much as possible organic skincare, quality makeup and clothes, and living a healthy lifestyle consistently. No to soda and too much junk food!
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How much of a foodie are you?
I love food so much but in my line of work I cannot afford to always indulge. I’m very open to try different cuisines and taste new dishes all the time and I enjoy most of them except for meat, I’m trying to cut down on those.
Do you have any hobbies or interests?
Yes! I spend most of my time reading YA, Dystopian and Mystery novels, watching movies, spending quality time with my family, and lately I’ve been trying to develop my personal style more by learning about fashion styling.
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Which flavor best describes you?
Milk chocolate.
If you could be a fictional or cartoon character, who will it be?
I’ve always wanted to be Barbie cause she has good style, or Jasmine from Aladdin.
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What turns you off on a date?
I don’t like someone who talks about themselves in a very egotistical way. Someone who describes their life, success and personality as almost perfect because if you have good qualities it should be shown, not bragged. Just walk the talk.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Mara. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Sexy for me is when you are fearless about whatever it is you want, who you want to be with and comfortable in your own skin. For me, dressing classy and stylish, having a healthy and toned body, and being confident in who you are will always be sexy.
I like giving oral sex, I like the feeling of knowing that I’m pleasing the one I’m with. I like receiving oral sex but it doesn’t give me as much pleasure as sex does so I usually wants to skip it.
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What Is A Sloppy Blowjob
A lot of saliva, ruined makeup and maybe some deepthroating. All I want is to be covered in saliva and cum when we finished.
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Tips To Give A Good Sloppy
I would say, drink a lot of water or any liquid a couple hours before. I know that I can’t produce a lot of saliva when I’m dehydrated. Take the dick as far down as you can, that gives you thicker saliva. Don’t swallow any saliva, just keep it in you mouth and if it drips out, lick it up again. I don’t really have a technique, just do it as a normal blowjob but with a lot of saliva in my mouth and smack the dick on my face when it’s wet.
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My Favorite Choice Of Finish
I prefer facials. I love the feeling of warm cum running down my face. And also knowing that my partner likes it so that gives me a lot of pleasure.
If I get a facial, I like to smear it all over my face and sometimes push it into my mouth and swallow it.
If he comes in my mouth, I like to swirl it around and show it to everyone that watches before I swallow it.
Miss Banana – Hi! I’m a Swedish girl who does homemade porn on Pornhub. Even though I make porn, I’m actually kinda shy and usually don’t want to be in focus. I have two cats and I like to play PC games on my free time.
I’m American Indian and Irish. I’m originally from Ringgold, GA and now residing in South Florida.
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How did you get started into modeling?
Always been a dream of mine, I really started pursuing it more when I moved from Georgia to Florida. I have always been very photogenic which has helped a lot.
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Photo: Ken Mischke
Have you ever felt nervous before a photoshoot?
Yes! A lot right when I was starting out. Now I don’t as much, you really just can’t think too much about it before you do it. You have to keep your mind on other things or be busy lol.
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Do you have any hobbies or interests?
I love free diving and spearfishing, I love the outdoors, camping and traveling. I also love riding motorcycles and extreme sports.
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Photo: Adam King Photography
What food or drink can you not live without?
Eggs! They a great protein source and I eat them A LOT for breakfast!
Drink is water, I drink it all the time to stay hydrated, plus it keeps my skin looking great which is very important when you’re a model.
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Is there something you’ve always wanted to experience but have yet to do so?
Sure, I would love to visit Bora-Bora. I would also love to try base jumping.
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Would you rather have the ability of invisibility or mind reading?
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What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?
When I had my own motorcycle and rode all the time, I had a guy get one to try and impress me and ride with me, he didn’t have a clue and ended up wrecking trying to follow me through the mountains.
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Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Heather. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Sexy is having confidence and being yourself, no matter what others think. I see far too many people scared to come out of there shell, just be you and you will be happy! Image may be NSFW. Clik here to view.
Have upcoming shoots in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico Glam jam Mexico, Motorcycle event coming up in Madera, California, California Rendezvous as the featured model for the event. Salt flats in Utah, SuperCon in Florida, August Jamaica for Kandyland Wonderland and Sept Costa Rica. Also have many new brands I am working with as a Brand Ambassador.
Also have two features coming up in Model Mania Magazine and Hunnie Magazine.
It’s often difficult to judge someone’s motivations when your only clues are the smile in their profile picture and the stuff they’ve mentioned in their description. A cynical person might even question how recent that image is, and to what extent aspects of their background might have been exaggerated.
Actually, telling the difference between a player and someone interested in connecting is quite straightforward. So if you are out to meet local singles using an online matching site, here are five signs the guy you’re messaging is seeking a real relationship as opposed to another in a series of casual pickups.
Energy
One giveaway is the level of enthusiasm he displays when communicating with you. If he is only really interested in getting to know you better because he has an ulterior motive – another one night stand before swiftly moving onto his next conquest – then he will be less likely to engage. However, if he is genuinely interested in wanting to have a relationship he will show interest in everything you have to say. He will be eager to get to know you better and uncover different aspects of your personality, quizzing you about your interests and hobbies. What if he can display knowledge in your subjects? This may well take you by surprise, but what it also indicates is he has taken the trouble to do some research after looking up the passions and leisure pursuits you have listed in your profile description.
If he is the one who is always initiating online chats or suggesting possible dates then he is obviously interested in something a bit more than casual romance.
Moving away from the site
If your only conversations with this guy are in chat rooms and any hint you drop about taking things offline is rebuffed, then you have every right to question his motives. But what about when you’ve developed enough chemistry in your chats for you to get the notion you’d like to take things to the next level? If he wants a real relationship he will be likely to suggest moving things on to WhatsApp or Facebook messages, or even suggest you exchange phone numbers. Wanting to actually connect with you at this intimate level is a surefire indicator he is serious.
Honesty
Guys who are only after one thing are hardly likely to announce it. Neither will they feel much like lying about the hidden depths they are sorely lacking. But if he is continually going out of his way to explain his feelings to you, then there is every possibility he is being honest.
Aspirations
Does he ever talk about longer-term ambitions or plans? Does he subtly drop hints about what it would be like to have someone to share accommodation with? How about conversations about moving in together, or even the possibility of starting a family? If he has the courage to come out with these at the risk of appearing overly keen, he is clearly passionate about you.
Taking it slow
If this guy shows no immediate signs of wanting to hook up but seems content to chat with you, finding out more about you over a period of time, this is another clear example he is looking for a partnership.
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Everyone calls me Angel, but instead of having an angelic face, I’ve an evil face. I was born with a resting bitch face…am twenty two this year, yet often get comments that my maturity doesn’t match my skills in dancing and acting. Currently am a freelance model, dancer, actress and in a business of doing healthy meals delivery. I’m a KL girl, and nice to meet you!
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What is the best compliment you have received?
A personality that doesn’t match my resting bitch face haha. After people start to get to know me, they find me as a person who is easy going and vulnerable.
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How will you describe your fashion style?
MOOD. I dress myself differently according to my mood, or I could also change my mood by the way I dress.
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Which fashion accessories are a must have in your collection?
Watches, please.
On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you?
11? Hahahaha!
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Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the time?
TRAVEL, TRAVEL, TRAVEL!
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Which reality TV show are you most likely to win that suits your skills?
World of Dance? Always wanted to participate in their contest. Perhaps Miss Astro too, that’s one of my current goals.
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What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?
Faking himself as one of my business clients, and when I asked, “How can I help you and which package you’re interested in?“.
He replied, “Can I date you out?”
Hahaha lameeeee.
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Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Angel. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
For me, sexy isn’t based on your outlook, it’s more about your inner beauty, your personality, the way you carry yourself.
I adore the practice and play of BDSM. When practiced with a critical eye and consent – it is really an incredible way to experience life. I see BDSM as a safe space to push on the boundaries of our identities and our interactions with others. It can enable us to feel into our edges and recognise how to exist with them in a productive and enriching way.
Personally, BDSM has helped me to explore aspects of myself that society has shunned – my personality as a dominant female to be specific. It has helped me to frame it in a way that I accept and that is accepted and even enjoyed by others.
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What Is Slave Training
BDSM slave training is the process of ‘training’ a submissive into a role of service – namely, the role of what is termed a ‘slave’ in BDSM. The actual process is always different depending on the preferences of the Dominant party. But essentially it’s familiarising a submissive with the protocols, behaviour and preferences of the Dominant – in order for the submissive to function to serve or please the Dominant in the best way possible.
Appeal Of Online Slave Training
I have created an online slave training program and filmed slave training video clips because it enables me to reach a much wider audience. An audience that may never have had the chance to session with me in person. It also provides a bridge for many who may be wary of meeting a Domme in real time. For them to get an experience and a better understanding of what it is like to serve someone well versed in the art of Domination. It also provides an extension of knowledge for those who are practicing real time. A chance for them to get to know me, from anywhere.
I really adore slave training because I find real value in seeing my submissives grow into my desires – and into becoming more self-aware and considered beings as a result of their service. It is much more fulfilling for me to see them grow rather than to cater to individual fetishes or kinks. I am also a Lifestyle Domme (where D/s is a natural joy to me); and I’m also a bit of a protocol fetishist – which suits slave training and behaviour modification perfectly.
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Training My Slaves Online
All submissives can join my slave training program at youwillpleaseme.com; which has daily tasks, courses, images and videos to guide you into your slavery to me. There are different levels all the way from learning how to dream over my images, to making a commitment to my slave agreement.
Submissives can also watch my slave training Femdom video clips – which feature instructions on different kinks such as foot worship and strap on training…
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My Expectations Of Slaves
I have a whole slave agreement that goes through many points hah.
But essentially the thing I prize above everything else is honesty – to myself and their own selves. It is important that subs come with either an awareness of where they are at (emotionally, psychologically, intellectually, financially); or that they are ready to start looking at themselves under my guidance.
Without this you are not the sub/slave-in-training for me. I enjoy my slaves to be self-aware or on the path towards it. This makes for the most sustainable and strongest slaves. Slaves that can bring as much to the relationship as I will.
I understand that this can sound intimidating for new submissives – but that is why I have different courses. They allow different personalities at different stages to feel out what service might be like – whichever stage they are at or interested in.
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Things To Consider Before Being A Slave
It is good to be aware that every Dominant will have their own nature and therefore every relationship will be different.
With this in mind, it is good to do your research – feel out the personality of your Dominant before you approach them (if you can). Or take your time to get to know their personality, priorities and preferences before making any long term commitments.
Also, don’t beat yourself up if it doesn’t work out. It might not be the right Dominant for you – or, you might not be as submissive as you thought. BDSM is about exploring the potential of human personality and sexuality – don’t limit yourself to roles or activities as best you can.
Mistress Eva– Mistress Eva is a lifestyle Domme with an accomplished past in professional domination. A classically trained Dominatrix, Mistress Eva has toured the world since 2012. She is now semi-retired in the tropics, runs an online slave training platform (youwillpleaseme.com), films XXX Femdom videos and owns a stable of international personal slaves. She meets them and other potential recruits once a month in cities worldwide.
